As a key to confidence and approaching women and having an awkward free, fun, constructive interraction with them, keeping them off the pedestal is of high importance. Does anyone have any good tips or ideas about how to come about this? Or is it simply something you learn after time?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Any tips for bringing those women off those pedestals?
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
seethehoop
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Tbh. I think you will find it hard to get any tips given some of the sh!t you have already spewed in to this forum. This is either another failed troll post or you are genuinely being naive in thinking people will give you tips now...someone may prove me wrong but we'll see.
Sneevox
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A woman can't take the pedestal if someone else is on it.
Try stepping onto the pedestal.
To add, if a girl refuses to step down, don't waste time on her. The girl's not worth it. NEXT.
Try stepping onto the pedestal.
To add, if a girl refuses to step down, don't waste time on her. The girl's not worth it. NEXT.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
With that mentality you have already lostToast123 said:
Look, see women as people who have to prove that they are worth your time and attention. Forget they have "sugar walls" and sexy features. Realize that sex with a man is what these women are designed to do and if they don't want to sex you that is their issue. Tell yourself this till you wake up one morning removed from the seduction matrix. Then go and attract women. YMMV. Live long and prosper:rockon:Purefilth
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Seethehoop - you were wrong
foreverAFC
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once you see women for what they truly are, there is no more pedestal
zekko
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Look, I know you look at the girl and she has the long hair and the pretty face and all the curves and all that. But think of it this way - every woman on the planet has a pair of tits, she's nothing special.
You have what she wants just as much as she has what you want - maybe more. She can't get it from a space alien, so all that leaves is us earth men. She craves your maleness just as you crave her femaleness - even without all the ridiculous "games" they tell you to play here. Like foreverAFC says, there is no pedestal.
You have what she wants just as much as she has what you want - maybe more. She can't get it from a space alien, so all that leaves is us earth men. She craves your maleness just as you crave her femaleness - even without all the ridiculous "games" they tell you to play here. Like foreverAFC says, there is no pedestal.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.