As a key to confidence and approaching women and having an awkward free, fun, constructive interraction with them, keeping them off the pedestal is of high importance. Does anyone have any good tips or ideas about how to come about this? Or is it simply something you learn after time?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Any tips for bringing those women off those pedestals?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
seethehoop
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Tbh. I think you will find it hard to get any tips given some of the sh!t you have already spewed in to this forum. This is either another failed troll post or you are genuinely being naive in thinking people will give you tips now...someone may prove me wrong but we'll see.
Sneevox
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A woman can't take the pedestal if someone else is on it.
Try stepping onto the pedestal.
To add, if a girl refuses to step down, don't waste time on her. The girl's not worth it. NEXT.
Try stepping onto the pedestal.
To add, if a girl refuses to step down, don't waste time on her. The girl's not worth it. NEXT.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
With that mentality you have already lostToast123 said:
Look, see women as people who have to prove that they are worth your time and attention. Forget they have "sugar walls" and sexy features. Realize that sex with a man is what these women are designed to do and if they don't want to sex you that is their issue. Tell yourself this till you wake up one morning removed from the seduction matrix. Then go and attract women. YMMV. Live long and prosper:rockon:Purefilth
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Seethehoop - you were wrong
foreverAFC
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once you see women for what they truly are, there is no more pedestal
zekko
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Look, I know you look at the girl and she has the long hair and the pretty face and all the curves and all that. But think of it this way - every woman on the planet has a pair of tits, she's nothing special.
You have what she wants just as much as she has what you want - maybe more. She can't get it from a space alien, so all that leaves is us earth men. She craves your maleness just as you crave her femaleness - even without all the ridiculous "games" they tell you to play here. Like foreverAFC says, there is no pedestal.
You have what she wants just as much as she has what you want - maybe more. She can't get it from a space alien, so all that leaves is us earth men. She craves your maleness just as you crave her femaleness - even without all the ridiculous "games" they tell you to play here. Like foreverAFC says, there is no pedestal.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.