As a key to confidence and approaching women and having an awkward free, fun, constructive interraction with them, keeping them off the pedestal is of high importance. Does anyone have any good tips or ideas about how to come about this? Or is it simply something you learn after time?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Any tips for bringing those women off those pedestals?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
seethehoop
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Tbh. I think you will find it hard to get any tips given some of the sh!t you have already spewed in to this forum. This is either another failed troll post or you are genuinely being naive in thinking people will give you tips now...someone may prove me wrong but we'll see.
Sneevox
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A woman can't take the pedestal if someone else is on it.
Try stepping onto the pedestal.
To add, if a girl refuses to step down, don't waste time on her. The girl's not worth it. NEXT.
Try stepping onto the pedestal.
To add, if a girl refuses to step down, don't waste time on her. The girl's not worth it. NEXT.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
With that mentality you have already lostToast123 said:
Look, see women as people who have to prove that they are worth your time and attention. Forget they have "sugar walls" and sexy features. Realize that sex with a man is what these women are designed to do and if they don't want to sex you that is their issue. Tell yourself this till you wake up one morning removed from the seduction matrix. Then go and attract women. YMMV. Live long and prosper:rockon:Purefilth
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Seethehoop - you were wrong
foreverAFC
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once you see women for what they truly are, there is no more pedestal
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Look, I know you look at the girl and she has the long hair and the pretty face and all the curves and all that. But think of it this way - every woman on the planet has a pair of tits, she's nothing special.
You have what she wants just as much as she has what you want - maybe more. She can't get it from a space alien, so all that leaves is us earth men. She craves your maleness just as you crave her femaleness - even without all the ridiculous "games" they tell you to play here. Like foreverAFC says, there is no pedestal.
You have what she wants just as much as she has what you want - maybe more. She can't get it from a space alien, so all that leaves is us earth men. She craves your maleness just as you crave her femaleness - even without all the ridiculous "games" they tell you to play here. Like foreverAFC says, there is no pedestal.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.