"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Any pet owners in here?

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Got a big ass dog, had a parakeet I caught outside as a teenager (escaped pet) just passed. There's a spider in my studio i've named Keith... he's pretty sick
 

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A German Shepherd Dog, which came from being dumped at a county pound, there are lots of purebreds in shelters. And two outdoor cats that were each thrown out the window of a moving car as kittens, in separate instances. People throw away some good stuff.
 

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I can barely take care of myself and would probably kill a houseplant.
Same here. I'm convinced that taking care of a pet requires an amount of effort that's almost no less than that of taking care of a human child.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I've got a big ass dong, does that count?
 

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I've had my current pit bull for 8 years. Just got into house plants. After 4.5 months, 4 of the 10 plants are dead. The dog is still happy and well.
I can't help but think those plants don't respond too well to vicious barking.
 

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I'm convinced that taking care of a pet requires an amount of effort that's almost no less than that of taking care of a human child.
This is a reason why I do not own a pet. I do not wish to make the effort that is involved in pet ownership.
 

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A German Shepherd Dog, which came from being dumped at a county pound, there are lots of purebreds in shelters. And two outdoor cats that were each thrown out the window of a moving car as kittens, in separate instances. People throw away some good stuff.
Somehow that made me sad. Over the years, cats have just grown on me.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I had an awesome dog named Grace. She was excellent. Half Doberman and half Weimeraner.
My ex wife kept her. My only remaining regret about the split. I sent Grace a couple of steaks
for Christmas. I know she'll have no idea how they came to be in her bowl but it at least makes
me feel a little better about the whole thing.
doggo.jpg
 

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..........lots of purebreds in shelters. And two outdoor cats that were each thrown out the window of a moving car as kittens, in separate instances. People throw away some good stuff.
It's horrendous the way some people treat animals.

I've had Stig since 9 weeks old... But Mia...
I got her at around a year old... The previous owner (female) had bought her as a cute 'accessory' puppy....
As Mia grew up, she became an inconvenience to her lifestyle - The dog was left in a crate all night when she went out.... returned home at 9 or 10 the next day and was baffled why the dog was covered in her own mess, and the neighbours were complaining about the barking.
Then when she had her first season, Mia prolapsed, basically her womb was hanging out (not uncommon in blue-grey staffordshires) - The owner delayed going to the vet for so long that it strangulated and went necrotic - Mia almost died - RSPCA were involved.
I got Mia when she'd healed from the op (a full hysterectomy)
If you look at the photo above... there's a spot of scar tissue on her lower lip - apparently from trying to bite her way out of the crate one night.
The first few weeks I had her, she was very nervous - she would run off and hide if I stood up unexpectedly, and she would 'slink' around the walls/furniture as if she was afraid. Looked to me like she'd probably also been beaten previously.

Some people...... :mad:

Stig soon brought her out of her shell though... these days she struts about like she owns the place.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Cat here.

Plants are harder to take care of than animals since animals complain when they need something. I have a ton of them, but it's def a learning curve to keep them alive or remember that they exist.
 
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