"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Any other tall DJs want to help?

Cheat_LBJ

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I'm just a shade under 7' tall, and I've found it to be an amazing impediment to meeting women.

In social situations, it's impossible to tell who is "checking you out" and who is just looking to see how tall you are. Further, the sheer distance makes conversing in bars/clubs nearly impossible to hear, which really stinks as well (and to say nothing of trying to dance without looking awkward as can be).

I was just wondering if there were any other taller DJs out there who might have some tips on how to use height to an advantage (or negate the disadvantage, at the very least)!

-C:LBJ
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Jariel

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That's very tall, but it can work in your favour if you use it. Always stand with a straight, bold and confident posture, be proud of your height.

I suggest you watch some wrestling and see how the taller wrestlers handle their height. Kevin Nash is a good example (7ft if I remember). He is so charismatic, laidback, confident and I can't imagine anyone disrespecting him.

It's all about confidence. Self-consciousness is your worst enemy, so embrace your height as a genetic gift.
 

quest

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i have a mate from high school who is very tall.. not sure about 7' but i'm 6' and he is a hell of alot taller then me.. he'd have to be a good 6'10 or something..
he also plays australian rules football pretty competitivly so he's got some pretty good muscle on him.
i'd love to tell ya how to make it work, i can't. but i can tell you this.
i saw this mate out at a club last week and he while i was chatting to him (about 15 minutes in total) 2 girls who i know (from 2 seperate groups) approached me, one said "he is so f*cken hot" the other said "that is the best looking guy i've ever seen".
i was looking at his head, and he's definently not ugly. but if his head was on a smaller body, i don't think he'd have got those compliments.

- my advice, hit the gym, make sure ur not some lanky f*cker. and like the guy before said, stand tall, stand proud.
 

Wiesman44

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most girls I know won't date a guy over 6'4 or 6'5. Its all there preference. you have to meet a woman that doesnt care about height, or who is very tall herself.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm 6'5 3/4 About 250lbs..and built like a brick shyt house. I'm very defined, but I still tend to intimidate some women. I get my share of HB's though....
 

MrHarris

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Just wear basketball sweats and jerseys and you will have no problems finding dates...so use your height to your advantage....and yes your hella tall man!
 
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