"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Any other tall DJs want to help?

Cheat_LBJ

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I'm just a shade under 7' tall, and I've found it to be an amazing impediment to meeting women.

In social situations, it's impossible to tell who is "checking you out" and who is just looking to see how tall you are. Further, the sheer distance makes conversing in bars/clubs nearly impossible to hear, which really stinks as well (and to say nothing of trying to dance without looking awkward as can be).

I was just wondering if there were any other taller DJs out there who might have some tips on how to use height to an advantage (or negate the disadvantage, at the very least)!

-C:LBJ
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Jariel

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That's very tall, but it can work in your favour if you use it. Always stand with a straight, bold and confident posture, be proud of your height.

I suggest you watch some wrestling and see how the taller wrestlers handle their height. Kevin Nash is a good example (7ft if I remember). He is so charismatic, laidback, confident and I can't imagine anyone disrespecting him.

It's all about confidence. Self-consciousness is your worst enemy, so embrace your height as a genetic gift.
 

quest

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i have a mate from high school who is very tall.. not sure about 7' but i'm 6' and he is a hell of alot taller then me.. he'd have to be a good 6'10 or something..
he also plays australian rules football pretty competitivly so he's got some pretty good muscle on him.
i'd love to tell ya how to make it work, i can't. but i can tell you this.
i saw this mate out at a club last week and he while i was chatting to him (about 15 minutes in total) 2 girls who i know (from 2 seperate groups) approached me, one said "he is so f*cken hot" the other said "that is the best looking guy i've ever seen".
i was looking at his head, and he's definently not ugly. but if his head was on a smaller body, i don't think he'd have got those compliments.

- my advice, hit the gym, make sure ur not some lanky f*cker. and like the guy before said, stand tall, stand proud.
 

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most girls I know won't date a guy over 6'4 or 6'5. Its all there preference. you have to meet a woman that doesnt care about height, or who is very tall herself.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm 6'5 3/4 About 250lbs..and built like a brick shyt house. I'm very defined, but I still tend to intimidate some women. I get my share of HB's though....
 

MrHarris

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Just wear basketball sweats and jerseys and you will have no problems finding dates...so use your height to your advantage....and yes your hella tall man!
 
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