"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Any other tall DJs want to help?

Cheat_LBJ

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I'm just a shade under 7' tall, and I've found it to be an amazing impediment to meeting women.

In social situations, it's impossible to tell who is "checking you out" and who is just looking to see how tall you are. Further, the sheer distance makes conversing in bars/clubs nearly impossible to hear, which really stinks as well (and to say nothing of trying to dance without looking awkward as can be).

I was just wondering if there were any other taller DJs out there who might have some tips on how to use height to an advantage (or negate the disadvantage, at the very least)!

-C:LBJ
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Jariel

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That's very tall, but it can work in your favour if you use it. Always stand with a straight, bold and confident posture, be proud of your height.

I suggest you watch some wrestling and see how the taller wrestlers handle their height. Kevin Nash is a good example (7ft if I remember). He is so charismatic, laidback, confident and I can't imagine anyone disrespecting him.

It's all about confidence. Self-consciousness is your worst enemy, so embrace your height as a genetic gift.
 

quest

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i have a mate from high school who is very tall.. not sure about 7' but i'm 6' and he is a hell of alot taller then me.. he'd have to be a good 6'10 or something..
he also plays australian rules football pretty competitivly so he's got some pretty good muscle on him.
i'd love to tell ya how to make it work, i can't. but i can tell you this.
i saw this mate out at a club last week and he while i was chatting to him (about 15 minutes in total) 2 girls who i know (from 2 seperate groups) approached me, one said "he is so f*cken hot" the other said "that is the best looking guy i've ever seen".
i was looking at his head, and he's definently not ugly. but if his head was on a smaller body, i don't think he'd have got those compliments.

- my advice, hit the gym, make sure ur not some lanky f*cker. and like the guy before said, stand tall, stand proud.
 

Wiesman44

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most girls I know won't date a guy over 6'4 or 6'5. Its all there preference. you have to meet a woman that doesnt care about height, or who is very tall herself.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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jprjrjr

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I'm 6'5 3/4 About 250lbs..and built like a brick shyt house. I'm very defined, but I still tend to intimidate some women. I get my share of HB's though....
 

MrHarris

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Just wear basketball sweats and jerseys and you will have no problems finding dates...so use your height to your advantage....and yes your hella tall man!
 
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