"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Any other tall DJs want to help?

Cheat_LBJ

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I'm just a shade under 7' tall, and I've found it to be an amazing impediment to meeting women.

In social situations, it's impossible to tell who is "checking you out" and who is just looking to see how tall you are. Further, the sheer distance makes conversing in bars/clubs nearly impossible to hear, which really stinks as well (and to say nothing of trying to dance without looking awkward as can be).

I was just wondering if there were any other taller DJs out there who might have some tips on how to use height to an advantage (or negate the disadvantage, at the very least)!

-C:LBJ
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Jariel

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That's very tall, but it can work in your favour if you use it. Always stand with a straight, bold and confident posture, be proud of your height.

I suggest you watch some wrestling and see how the taller wrestlers handle their height. Kevin Nash is a good example (7ft if I remember). He is so charismatic, laidback, confident and I can't imagine anyone disrespecting him.

It's all about confidence. Self-consciousness is your worst enemy, so embrace your height as a genetic gift.
 

quest

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i have a mate from high school who is very tall.. not sure about 7' but i'm 6' and he is a hell of alot taller then me.. he'd have to be a good 6'10 or something..
he also plays australian rules football pretty competitivly so he's got some pretty good muscle on him.
i'd love to tell ya how to make it work, i can't. but i can tell you this.
i saw this mate out at a club last week and he while i was chatting to him (about 15 minutes in total) 2 girls who i know (from 2 seperate groups) approached me, one said "he is so f*cken hot" the other said "that is the best looking guy i've ever seen".
i was looking at his head, and he's definently not ugly. but if his head was on a smaller body, i don't think he'd have got those compliments.

- my advice, hit the gym, make sure ur not some lanky f*cker. and like the guy before said, stand tall, stand proud.
 

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most girls I know won't date a guy over 6'4 or 6'5. Its all there preference. you have to meet a woman that doesnt care about height, or who is very tall herself.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I'm 6'5 3/4 About 250lbs..and built like a brick shyt house. I'm very defined, but I still tend to intimidate some women. I get my share of HB's though....
 

MrHarris

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Just wear basketball sweats and jerseys and you will have no problems finding dates...so use your height to your advantage....and yes your hella tall man!
 
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