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The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.
Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.
Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Yeh he’s always buy himself that guyWas't Andrew Tate scamming a "Pimping Hos Degree" course that was basically messaging chicks on Instagram?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Yeah i seen it , nothing new...rehashed bs already common knowledgeWas't Andrew Tate scamming a "Pimping Hos Degree" course that was basically messaging chicks on Instagram?
TUMBS UP BROTHER!!!!!!Meh. Meeting girls through Instagram is bullsh*t. Real men approach in person, end of. I think any form of online dating or using social media to get girls is a crutch for guys who are to p*ssy to approach in person. Lame ass sh*t. In fact there's no such thing as 'Instagram game'. It doesn't exist, it just a marketing angle to get naive guys' money.
how did you do it ?Yeah, right. Because the hot chick I met on IG and nailed the same night is such an AW.
Damm!!!!
I lose. ![]()
Your desperateCan you tell me how? every time I send a message they don't read it, they don't see it. I stopped messaging girls on IG for that reason. I think it's a good platform to meet hot girls, I just don't know how. I have a good game, I'm tall and good looking and everything.
Any help?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Yeh the man asks a question if I had to guess you would need to spend a lot of money on professional pictures upload story’s all the time maybe just reply to women’s story’s when you dm them , I would say looks money status is Instagram game ?Not at all, I have plenty of girls in my life that's not a problem. Instead of bashing, try helping.