"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hi,
Im 18... and im skinny as hell.
I always get told by people "Damn your arms are so thin" and all that other stuff.

Even girls compare the size of their arms to mine... and they say... "my arms bigger than urs"

Im extremely boney too.... here some pics of my elbow....
http://www.free.sdrainster.com/user/Unt1.jpg
http://www.free.sdrainster.com/user/Unt2.jpg

Ok....
Now my question.... How how.... can I work on my arms on those spots? I want to workout my body as a whole... but i want to focus abit more on that... I am not asking for a quickfix... im asking for advice.

I am willing to work my a$$ off...
My average daily intake... well today it looked like...
Glass of milk
2 Slices of toast - breakfast
2 Min Noodles - lunch
Veggies, Rice, Chicken - supper

What should I be eating?

Now for a workout... I can't really afford gym membership, but i do have dumbells... Although i dont really know the names of all the workouts I will look them up if i have to!

Please guys.... any advice... even if you write it in chinese... I will spend a day translating it if i have to.

Really want help... its clear girls don't want a skinny guy who is thinner than them.

Thanks....
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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envI said:
I will spend a day translating it if i have to.
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How about spending 5 minutes using the search function?

Look for Warboss Alex' Idiots Guide
 
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Two things:

1) forget your arms, you need to start eating and go heavy on the compounds. you're tiny and you need to get bigger before you start working on those hyooge bicepz

2) you're 18. get a job, weekend if you have to, and buy a gym membership. dumbells won't do jack for you at your stage.
 
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both breakfast & lunch need to have much more lean protein, and you need more meals spaced through the day.

read WBA's guide and come back with more questions.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Thanks

Hey,
Thanks to al of you who replied :) appriciate it...

Where can I find WBA's guide ? I did a search but can't seem to find anything...

Thanks again :) :)
 
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work ur ass off 3 days a week and start eating like a pig 7 days a week diet is the most important part no fastfood but yah read alex warbosses posts extremely helpful
 
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You must've searched REEEALLLL hard :rolleyes:

Took me about 15 seconds. Search: "Idiot's". Bam. Halfway down the page. "Idiot's Guide to Growth"
 
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erm

oops... ok... didnt kno that WBA was meant to be Warboss Alex... got that :)
 
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Ah yes, that could be of some help. I'd recommend searching for the topic name instead of the author name. Especially since WBA has over 2000 posts.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Eat lots + Lifting heavy things = Muscle growth.

Get some damn fat in your diet! You're eating like a bird.
 
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....

Hi...
Still gota go food shopping... house packed with potatoes... n cheese n tomatoes... lol as u might see... :p

But tomorrow will visit shops... n organise :)
Later
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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That's nice, you have a house full of fat and carbs. Not quite what muscles are made of ..
 
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Warboss Alex said:
anyone would think I liked it here. :crazy:
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I've become addicted to this little part of SoSuave. Every now and then I venture out into the other forums, but it's so scary.:eek:
 
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