"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Any help... desperate.

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Hi,
Im 18... and im skinny as hell.
I always get told by people "Damn your arms are so thin" and all that other stuff.

Even girls compare the size of their arms to mine... and they say... "my arms bigger than urs"

Im extremely boney too.... here some pics of my elbow....
http://www.free.sdrainster.com/user/Unt1.jpg
http://www.free.sdrainster.com/user/Unt2.jpg

Ok....
Now my question.... How how.... can I work on my arms on those spots? I want to workout my body as a whole... but i want to focus abit more on that... I am not asking for a quickfix... im asking for advice.

I am willing to work my a$$ off...
My average daily intake... well today it looked like...
Glass of milk
2 Slices of toast - breakfast
2 Min Noodles - lunch
Veggies, Rice, Chicken - supper

What should I be eating?

Now for a workout... I can't really afford gym membership, but i do have dumbells... Although i dont really know the names of all the workouts I will look them up if i have to!

Please guys.... any advice... even if you write it in chinese... I will spend a day translating it if i have to.

Really want help... its clear girls don't want a skinny guy who is thinner than them.

Thanks....
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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envI said:
I will spend a day translating it if i have to.
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How about spending 5 minutes using the search function?

Look for Warboss Alex' Idiots Guide
 
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Two things:

1) forget your arms, you need to start eating and go heavy on the compounds. you're tiny and you need to get bigger before you start working on those hyooge bicepz

2) you're 18. get a job, weekend if you have to, and buy a gym membership. dumbells won't do jack for you at your stage.
 
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both breakfast & lunch need to have much more lean protein, and you need more meals spaced through the day.

read WBA's guide and come back with more questions.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Thanks

Hey,
Thanks to al of you who replied :) appriciate it...

Where can I find WBA's guide ? I did a search but can't seem to find anything...

Thanks again :) :)
 
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work ur ass off 3 days a week and start eating like a pig 7 days a week diet is the most important part no fastfood but yah read alex warbosses posts extremely helpful
 
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You must've searched REEEALLLL hard :rolleyes:

Took me about 15 seconds. Search: "Idiot's". Bam. Halfway down the page. "Idiot's Guide to Growth"
 
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erm

oops... ok... didnt kno that WBA was meant to be Warboss Alex... got that :)
 
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Ah yes, that could be of some help. I'd recommend searching for the topic name instead of the author name. Especially since WBA has over 2000 posts.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Eat lots + Lifting heavy things = Muscle growth.

Get some damn fat in your diet! You're eating like a bird.
 
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....

Hi...
Still gota go food shopping... house packed with potatoes... n cheese n tomatoes... lol as u might see... :p

But tomorrow will visit shops... n organise :)
Later
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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That's nice, you have a house full of fat and carbs. Not quite what muscles are made of ..
 
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Warboss Alex said:
anyone would think I liked it here. :crazy:
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I've become addicted to this little part of SoSuave. Every now and then I venture out into the other forums, but it's so scary.:eek:
 
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