"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Any help... desperate.

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Hi,
Im 18... and im skinny as hell.
I always get told by people "Damn your arms are so thin" and all that other stuff.

Even girls compare the size of their arms to mine... and they say... "my arms bigger than urs"

Im extremely boney too.... here some pics of my elbow....
http://www.free.sdrainster.com/user/Unt1.jpg
http://www.free.sdrainster.com/user/Unt2.jpg

Ok....
Now my question.... How how.... can I work on my arms on those spots? I want to workout my body as a whole... but i want to focus abit more on that... I am not asking for a quickfix... im asking for advice.

I am willing to work my a$$ off...
My average daily intake... well today it looked like...
Glass of milk
2 Slices of toast - breakfast
2 Min Noodles - lunch
Veggies, Rice, Chicken - supper

What should I be eating?

Now for a workout... I can't really afford gym membership, but i do have dumbells... Although i dont really know the names of all the workouts I will look them up if i have to!

Please guys.... any advice... even if you write it in chinese... I will spend a day translating it if i have to.

Really want help... its clear girls don't want a skinny guy who is thinner than them.

Thanks....
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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envI said:
I will spend a day translating it if i have to.
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How about spending 5 minutes using the search function?

Look for Warboss Alex' Idiots Guide
 
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Two things:

1) forget your arms, you need to start eating and go heavy on the compounds. you're tiny and you need to get bigger before you start working on those hyooge bicepz

2) you're 18. get a job, weekend if you have to, and buy a gym membership. dumbells won't do jack for you at your stage.
 
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both breakfast & lunch need to have much more lean protein, and you need more meals spaced through the day.

read WBA's guide and come back with more questions.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Thanks

Hey,
Thanks to al of you who replied :) appriciate it...

Where can I find WBA's guide ? I did a search but can't seem to find anything...

Thanks again :) :)
 
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work ur ass off 3 days a week and start eating like a pig 7 days a week diet is the most important part no fastfood but yah read alex warbosses posts extremely helpful
 
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You must've searched REEEALLLL hard :rolleyes:

Took me about 15 seconds. Search: "Idiot's". Bam. Halfway down the page. "Idiot's Guide to Growth"
 
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erm

oops... ok... didnt kno that WBA was meant to be Warboss Alex... got that :)
 
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Ah yes, that could be of some help. I'd recommend searching for the topic name instead of the author name. Especially since WBA has over 2000 posts.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Eat lots + Lifting heavy things = Muscle growth.

Get some damn fat in your diet! You're eating like a bird.
 
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....

Hi...
Still gota go food shopping... house packed with potatoes... n cheese n tomatoes... lol as u might see... :p

But tomorrow will visit shops... n organise :)
Later
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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That's nice, you have a house full of fat and carbs. Not quite what muscles are made of ..
 
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Warboss Alex said:
anyone would think I liked it here. :crazy:
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I've become addicted to this little part of SoSuave. Every now and then I venture out into the other forums, but it's so scary.:eek:
 
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