"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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any good long haircut for men?

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i have long hair now and i get rejected more often than when i had short hair

but i dont like visint hairdresser every 2 weeks + most of them are unskilled as **** and just waste ur money and u look bad in the end anyway


so i let hair grow but it doesnt look too good.

ideas?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yes, cut it off. Plus, unless you have very thick long hair, the strains thin as there's more hair so you actually look older, not your age or younger. Have you considered hiring a style consultant?

I have a hair grooming trimmer which I use every two weeks. 11mm on the top, 7mm on the side. Works for me and I save well over 500 bucks a year on hair cuts. I even have a mirror and shaper for the hair in the back. Trimmer was 24 bucks I think. Mirror was 5, and the shaper for the back was 10. I can find which I bought on Amazon and post here if people would like.
 

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A man needs to look sharp when in the city.

Get ur hair cut every 3 to 4 weeks, you can stretch it out if you don't have the cash but don't go beyond 6 weeks.

Haircuts are relatively cheap, and there's plenty of good barbers/stylist around if u r bothered to look.
 

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Look into mens custom hair styling shops in your area…
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i have long hair now and i get rejected more often than when i had short hair

but i dont like visint hairdresser every 2 weeks + most of them are unskilled as **** and just waste ur money and u look bad in the end anyway


so i let hair grow but it doesnt look too good.

ideas?
Have to know what kind of hair you have.

When men have long thin hair it doesn’t look the best.
I have medium long hair and women love it. It’s also very thick and full though.
Depends also onyour face shape what styles will look good
 

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Jesus looked good with long hair. And Brad Pitt if he's in a period piece. There's your list of men who look good with long hair.
Jesus looked good in his time when it's common.

Brad Pitt for his movie.

Real life in the city not so much unless it's work related like fashion industry or some new age industry etc.

Wouldn't work with a banker or police office now would it ?
 

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If you’re good looking then you could pull it off if not it depends on your hairstyle. It can make or break a look. I would definitely recommend not doing what most of these guys have said, do not shave your head very short or all one length that is not attractive to a woman, It looks very lazy and no style. You have to have a good hairstyle. First, determine your hair type, determine what hairstyle suit your face shape, look up modern hairstyles for 2019, go to the barber if you want it cut. In my opinion if you want it long I would just keep it long.
 

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Wear it in two braids like snoop dogg & willie nelson.
 
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