"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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any good long haircut for men?

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i have long hair now and i get rejected more often than when i had short hair

but i dont like visint hairdresser every 2 weeks + most of them are unskilled as **** and just waste ur money and u look bad in the end anyway


so i let hair grow but it doesnt look too good.

ideas?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yes, cut it off. Plus, unless you have very thick long hair, the strains thin as there's more hair so you actually look older, not your age or younger. Have you considered hiring a style consultant?

I have a hair grooming trimmer which I use every two weeks. 11mm on the top, 7mm on the side. Works for me and I save well over 500 bucks a year on hair cuts. I even have a mirror and shaper for the hair in the back. Trimmer was 24 bucks I think. Mirror was 5, and the shaper for the back was 10. I can find which I bought on Amazon and post here if people would like.
 

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A man needs to look sharp when in the city.

Get ur hair cut every 3 to 4 weeks, you can stretch it out if you don't have the cash but don't go beyond 6 weeks.

Haircuts are relatively cheap, and there's plenty of good barbers/stylist around if u r bothered to look.
 

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Look into mens custom hair styling shops in your area…
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i have long hair now and i get rejected more often than when i had short hair

but i dont like visint hairdresser every 2 weeks + most of them are unskilled as **** and just waste ur money and u look bad in the end anyway


so i let hair grow but it doesnt look too good.

ideas?
Have to know what kind of hair you have.

When men have long thin hair it doesn’t look the best.
I have medium long hair and women love it. It’s also very thick and full though.
Depends also onyour face shape what styles will look good
 

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Jesus looked good with long hair. And Brad Pitt if he's in a period piece. There's your list of men who look good with long hair.
Jesus looked good in his time when it's common.

Brad Pitt for his movie.

Real life in the city not so much unless it's work related like fashion industry or some new age industry etc.

Wouldn't work with a banker or police office now would it ?
 

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If you’re good looking then you could pull it off if not it depends on your hairstyle. It can make or break a look. I would definitely recommend not doing what most of these guys have said, do not shave your head very short or all one length that is not attractive to a woman, It looks very lazy and no style. You have to have a good hairstyle. First, determine your hair type, determine what hairstyle suit your face shape, look up modern hairstyles for 2019, go to the barber if you want it cut. In my opinion if you want it long I would just keep it long.
 

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Wear it in two braids like snoop dogg & willie nelson.
 
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