"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Any good last minute gift ideas for my gf of 2 years?
- Thread starter Ricky
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
KontrollerX
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LOL, seriously though man getting her a DVD or CD of her favorite band also works.
TyTe`EyEs
Master Don Juan
The picture frame was one of the gifts I thought about getting her. I know she'd like it.
What brand did you get, and did you get it a chain store.
Thanks.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
You'll just have to go to the mall to buy whatever's left.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
whats your girlfriends age?Ricky said:I seriously don't know what I'm going to get her.
I have a feeling some of the suggestions i get are going to make me laugh.
I'd suggest that you take her on a trip later in the year to a place that she has always wanted to go (personally my girlfriend has always wanted to go to the west coast and I plan on taking her this upcoming year because I am going there already).
create a coupon with the date of when you plan to take it. That worked for my ex-girlfriend and she loved it.
Just a day trip alone is amazing.
comic_relief