"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Any good last minute gift ideas for my gf of 2 years?

Ricky

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I seriously don't know what I'm going to get her.

I have a feeling some of the suggestions i get are going to make me laugh.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Get her a 12 inch monster dildo.

LOL, seriously though man getting her a DVD or CD of her favorite band also works.
 

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I just bought a digital picture frame for my mom. It's pretty cool. You can upload several pics and start a slide show. I got the 8 inch for $129.99.
 

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Jack Rabbit
 

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I've actually gotten that Rabbit thing for two of my ex girlfriends. It is damn impressive in action.

The picture frame was one of the gifts I thought about getting her. I know she'd like it.

What brand did you get, and did you get it a chain store.

Thanks.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ricky said:
I seriously don't know what I'm going to get her.

I have a feeling some of the suggestions i get are going to make me laugh.
whats your girlfriends age?

I'd suggest that you take her on a trip later in the year to a place that she has always wanted to go (personally my girlfriend has always wanted to go to the west coast and I plan on taking her this upcoming year because I am going there already).

create a coupon with the date of when you plan to take it. That worked for my ex-girlfriend and she loved it.

Just a day trip alone is amazing.

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