"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Any good last minute gift ideas for my gf of 2 years?

Ricky

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I seriously don't know what I'm going to get her.

I have a feeling some of the suggestions i get are going to make me laugh.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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KontrollerX

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Get her a 12 inch monster dildo.

LOL, seriously though man getting her a DVD or CD of her favorite band also works.
 

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I just bought a digital picture frame for my mom. It's pretty cool. You can upload several pics and start a slide show. I got the 8 inch for $129.99.
 

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Jack Rabbit
 

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I've actually gotten that Rabbit thing for two of my ex girlfriends. It is damn impressive in action.

The picture frame was one of the gifts I thought about getting her. I know she'd like it.

What brand did you get, and did you get it a chain store.

Thanks.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ricky said:
I seriously don't know what I'm going to get her.

I have a feeling some of the suggestions i get are going to make me laugh.
whats your girlfriends age?

I'd suggest that you take her on a trip later in the year to a place that she has always wanted to go (personally my girlfriend has always wanted to go to the west coast and I plan on taking her this upcoming year because I am going there already).

create a coupon with the date of when you plan to take it. That worked for my ex-girlfriend and she loved it.

Just a day trip alone is amazing.

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