Lil Magic
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Title explains it all. Its addictive but i need to stop!!!
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Any Frickin Ways to Stop Jackin Off!!!
- Thread starter Lil Magic
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Bryce556
Senior Don Juan
mee too any answers here?? its somthing ive been struggleing with for quite a while
The Grey Fox
Don Juan
just try and ween yourself off it like smokers do with nicotene patches. start off by not jacking tonight and then if you really feel like it jack tomorrow, then wait 2 days and if you really need it do it the next day, then wait 3 days etc.
It's worked for me, oh and also reward yourself with your favourite food or whatever when you are successful with your willpower and if you at any stage give in, punish yourself by giving some money you were saving up to charity or something. You get the idea
It's worked for me, oh and also reward yourself with your favourite food or whatever when you are successful with your willpower and if you at any stage give in, punish yourself by giving some money you were saving up to charity or something. You get the idea
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Have more interesting things to do .
Go out , workout , study , call friends etc . This will keep your mind occupied and youll get away with this . Btw why you want to stop it ?? its normal healthy process .
Go out , workout , study , call friends etc . This will keep your mind occupied and youll get away with this . Btw why you want to stop it ?? its normal healthy process .
War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
Get laid, it stopped me.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
When do you usually jerk? Find a new way to use that time and commit to it. For example, I try to keep control of my jerking. I usually take a few days off because your balls feel better, you get better erections, and it feels better when you finally do. I generally jerk before I go to sleep, so I've replaced that timeslot with listening to music in my room with the lights off. It works, because when the album finishes I'm usually quite tired and fall asleep anyway, and I certainly don't feel like getting up.
Getting laid works too, I hear.
Getting laid works too, I hear.
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
I get laid basicly everday with my gf and I still jack off... Like other people said just cut down on it and find things to do to keep you busy.
Bonafide
Senior Don Juan
Lol - lower your testosterone level. If thats possible... cuz if u do it so much and ur always so horny... gosh I dunno thats fvcked up.
duffman360
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i remember i used to be addicted to it when i was 12 and 13 but when i turned 14 it stopped calling my attention so i started to build my collection of songs in my itunes and go out more
Stacks Of Terror
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Just stop. Its that simple. When you get hard ignore it. Go take a piss. Don't touch it. When you feel the need to jack off go do something else. Don't stay up to all times of night either. Idle time will kill you. Get a large social life going.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Crazy Asian
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just keep busy.
don't have time to wander and be bored.
don't have time to wander and be bored.
eaglez1177
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50 days? lol damn that sucksSilverant said:
DJ_Matthew
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Damn that's a good idea...Silverant said:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
You serious? That's strange, you're the first person I know that jacks off everyday yet still gets laid everyday.I.A.F.Y.B. said:
naes420
Don Juan
Dont stop, its natural and healthy, and for one, its what every man does, all of these guys LIE when they say they don't do it. Statistics say 95% of males do it, at least a few times a week, and thats probably an understatement.
GaryUranga
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just stop. or get busy with stuff usually I dont feel like doign it when Im being really social and have things to do
War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
That's a lie, 100% of all males jack off!naes420 said:
As a joke, I told my bestfriend I would do a 40 days and 40 nights challenge. It worked and I went 41 days/nights w/o jerking it. Now I find that I don't do it nearly as much as I did b4 the experiment. I started it by going away for a little over a week and spending time with other family. It does help to go out a bunch and garner a bigger social life :yes:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.