"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Any Frickin Ways to Stop Jackin Off!!!

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The Grey Fox

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just try and ween yourself off it like smokers do with nicotene patches. start off by not jacking tonight and then if you really feel like it jack tomorrow, then wait 2 days and if you really need it do it the next day, then wait 3 days etc.

It's worked for me, oh and also reward yourself with your favourite food or whatever when you are successful with your willpower and if you at any stage give in, punish yourself by giving some money you were saving up to charity or something. You get the idea :)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Drumstick

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When do you usually jerk? Find a new way to use that time and commit to it. For example, I try to keep control of my jerking. I usually take a few days off because your balls feel better, you get better erections, and it feels better when you finally do. I generally jerk before I go to sleep, so I've replaced that timeslot with listening to music in my room with the lights off. It works, because when the album finishes I'm usually quite tired and fall asleep anyway, and I certainly don't feel like getting up.

Getting laid works too, I hear.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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I get laid basicly everday with my gf and I still jack off... Like other people said just cut down on it and find things to do to keep you busy.
 

Bonafide

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Lol - lower your testosterone level. If thats possible... cuz if u do it so much and ur always so horny... gosh I dunno thats fvcked up.
 

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i remember i used to be addicted to it when i was 12 and 13 but when i turned 14 it stopped calling my attention so i started to build my collection of songs in my itunes and go out more
 

Stacks Of Terror

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Just stop. Its that simple. When you get hard ignore it. Go take a piss. Don't touch it. When you feel the need to jack off go do something else. Don't stay up to all times of night either. Idle time will kill you. Get a large social life going.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It's a matter of pride. You don't need to beat your meat. lol. I had a competition with my friends once and I went for 50 days. Lol walking through the mall on a hot summer day was the worst thing ever after a few weeks.
 

Crazy Asian

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just keep busy.
don't have time to wander and be bored.
 

eaglez1177

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Silverant said:
It's a matter of pride. You don't need to beat your meat. lol. I had a competition with my friends once and I went for 50 days. Lol walking through the mall on a hot summer day was the worst thing ever after a few weeks.
50 days? lol damn that sucks
 

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Silverant said:
It's a matter of pride. You don't need to beat your meat. lol. I had a competition with my friends once and I went for 50 days. Lol walking through the mall on a hot summer day was the worst thing ever after a few weeks.
Damn that's a good idea...
 

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Silverant said:
It's a matter of pride. You don't need to beat your meat. lol. I had a competition with my friends once and I went for 50 days. Lol walking through the mall on a hot summer day was the worst thing ever after a few weeks.

how would you know if someone cheats... did you guys check each other everyday? haha jk
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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War Against Betaism

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
I get laid basicly everday with my gf and I still jack off... Like other people said just cut down on it and find things to do to keep you busy.
You serious? That's strange, you're the first person I know that jacks off everyday yet still gets laid everyday.
 

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Dont stop, its natural and healthy, and for one, its what every man does, all of these guys LIE when they say they don't do it. Statistics say 95% of males do it, at least a few times a week, and thats probably an understatement.
 

War Against Betaism

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naes420 said:
Dont stop, its natural and healthy, and for one, its what every man does, all of these guys LIE when they say they don't do it. Statistics say 95% of males do it, at least a few times a week, and thats probably an understatement.
That's a lie, 100% of all males jack off!
 

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As a joke, I told my bestfriend I would do a 40 days and 40 nights challenge. It worked and I went 41 days/nights w/o jerking it. Now I find that I don't do it nearly as much as I did b4 the experiment. I started it by going away for a little over a week and spending time with other family. It does help to go out a bunch and garner a bigger social life :yes:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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