Any experience with dating a Widow?

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Not sure if you are asking about the general expression or how it relates to this thread in particular. I think the original expression was something along the lines of "Its over for Incels" and it became something of recurring inside joke to change the phrase slightly to whatever situation was being discussed. Example if height was being discussed someone would say "Its over for HeightCels"
 

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I've never been in this situation but I have a friend that was a straight up full blown man-wh0re that met a girl who lost a husband two years previous. He never held back and encountered no resistance.

As the others said, it shouldn't be a problem. Proceed like it was any other woman. They all get horny and want easy dihk when they haven't had any in a long time. Might as well be you that scratches that itch. Figure out the rest later.
 

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I’m dating a girl whose husband died in 2025.

She still has pictures around her house of him. Not sure how he feels looking at me while she’s giving me a BJ on the couch. But I’m cool with it.

If a woman is really into you then all her previous boyfriends become irrelevant to her (dead or alive).
 

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I have a neighbor who moved into my neighborhood about 6 months ago and we have grown close the last few months. About a month ago she was over at my house and she told me that she had lost her husband about 10+ years ago. We are getting along great at this point, but I have no experience with this, Any useful advise would be appreciated.
As long as you feel confident that she had nothing to do with herself becoming a widow, I don't see why you would treat her differently from any other woman.
 

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As a widow I can relate to this from the other side. Personally, it’s only been 8 months for me and I’m not ready to jump back on the horse yet but know that I will. If you two are doing things then she past the initial grief and moving on. I will say that losing a partner is a lot different than a divorce, emotionally. You may have to deal with some of the “my late…” conversations at times but it’s not a comparison it’s just a window into their past life and feelings. We all carry that into relationships it’s just having a spouse pass away, carries a deeper wound. It’ll also give you some insight to her and what she may be feeling or wanting.
 

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I recently broke up with a woman who is a Widow. We dated for 2 years. Her late husband died 4 years before we met.
She was very sweat, loving and caring. We broke up because she wanted someone to to move in with her and fill in the dad role for her kid, and I need a lot of space. Otherwise just proceed as normal.
 

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I found a widow in my shoe one time getting ready for a run. Creepy af. Like women, they like shoes and they get into everything.
 

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I dont think there's any real difference in dating a widow
 
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