“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Any chance of meeting hot girls on dating apps?

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Everyone starts off somewhere, your first girl isn't going to be the love of ur life.
Why would she not eventually be the love of your life? Things can develop into that. You can eventually be in love with a not so beautiful and unstable woman, if she loves you differently than any other woman has. Never underestimate where these things can lead. Love is funny that way.

I'm just saying the truth that any experience with her doesn't necessarily translate into dealing with hotter women. If you are going with that intent then you might be disappointed. But if you can like her and see there is potential then why not.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Old are complete waste of time for those who looking a for value in relationship. Its benefit to those who seeks high in short term. If youre looking for stable lasting romance youre going to be disappointed. I couldnt find at least one girl who comfortable in their own skin on old. SMH.

Its good for beginners who just get off his incelhood.
 

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Back to your question about hot girls on dating apps yes i matched with few.. But you have to be insane enough to date one. Most just looking for fling.. Be prepared to bend backwards too. For a high value men it wouldnt worth the effort.
 

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Any chance for an average looking or slightly above average looking guy to meet hot girls on Tinder or similar apps? I'm assuming cold approach is the only chance I have to get with a HOT girl. Has anyone had luck on Tinder with really attractive women? For reference, I'm in a small to medium sized college town in the midwestern US. I also don't have professional photos. I'd hate to spend all the money on the boosts and everything for nothing. Either way, I'm going to keep cold approaching, but wondered if online is worth it. Also, I'm not talking about sleeping with average or fat girls. My main goal is getting with a really hot one.
Yes, but you will need professional pictures which you said you don't have or want to pay for. So, then the answer is no for you.

Tinder isn't that great anymore. You will have better luck on Facebook Dating and Hinge. But, once again you will need professional pictures.

I've had luck with hot women on Tinder and many other dating apps. I'm only 5' 5" but I have a above average looking face and I'm in great shape. I started out using non professional pictures years ago and I would get dates here and there. Once I got professional pictures, the amount of dates I got sky rocketed. It was like night and day.

You should keep cold approaching. The more you do it, the better your conversation skills will get with random women. This will even help you on dates with women you meet on OLD.

Bottom line is that your pictures are the most important thing when it comes to OLD. You get what you put in. Minimal effort equals minimal results. If you live in a college town, then find a student photographer to take pictures of you.
 

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Yes, but you will need professional pictures which you said you don't have or want to pay for. So, then the answer is no for you.

Tinder isn't that great anymore. You will have better luck on Facebook Dating and Hinge. But, once again you will need professional pictures.

I've had luck with hot women on Tinder and many other dating apps. I'm only 5' 5" but I have a above average looking face and I'm in great shape. I started out using non professional pictures years ago and I would get dates here and there. Once I got professional pictures, the amount of dates I got sky rocketed. It was like night and day.

You should keep cold approaching. The more you do it, the better your conversation skills will get with random women. This will even help you on dates with women you meet on OLD.

Bottom line is that your pictures are the most important thing when it comes to OLD. You get what you put in. Minimal effort equals minimal results. If you live in a college town, then find a student photographer to take pictures of you.
I always taught that the pictures thing might be my problem.
But on the other hand I don't have any social media accounts and can't understand how people document every bit of their life.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Any chance for an average looking or slightly above average looking guy to meet hot girls on Tinder or similar apps? I'm assuming cold approach is the only chance I have to get with a HOT girl. Has anyone had luck on Tinder with really attractive women? For reference, I'm in a small to medium sized college town in the midwestern US. I also don't have professional photos. I'd hate to spend all the money on the boosts and everything for nothing. Either way, I'm going to keep cold approaching, but wondered if online is worth it. Also, I'm not talking about sleeping with average or fat girls. My main goal is getting with a really hot one.

I dont know what my SMV is but its above 6. Im even the dream size 6 foot 2, and built like a runner back.

I get 10 likes a day on OLD, from no more than 1's!!!!, BLOODY 1's, Brother!!!!!!!

I dont even get a mediocre 4 like my account . If you like your soul crushed from all the self improvement you've done, to be acknowledged by a bugle whale, carry on.
 

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I dont know what my SMV is but its above 6. Im even the dream size 6 foot 2, and built like a runner back.

I get 10 likes a day on OLD, from no more than 1's!!!!, BLOODY 1's, Brother!!!!!!!

I dont even get a mediocre 4 like my account . If you like your soul crushed from all the self improvement you've done, to be acknowledged by a bugle whale, carry on.
Lol derby.. Exactly the case with me here.. Lots of them hahahaaha.. 80%/20% rules is real.
 

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80%/20% rules is real.
the irony is brother, I consider myself the low end of top 30%-20%, Ive been in hundreds of social situations/busy supermarkets etc, this week, and there hasnt been many guys walking round, above me. Im quite prepared to say if a guy is accomplished or hotter.

Do you think this way aswell when you are out?

I unfortunately am only an high- average earner, but they cant see that through pics.

Im noticing aswell real handsome guys are doing MGTOW/black pill vids etc, so it goes to show my above theory is somewhat right,.

even higher up guys are being messed about. Men that women should be thankful for
 

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the irony is brother, I consider myself the low end of top 30%-20%, Ive been in hundreds of social situations/busy supermarkets etc, this week, and there hasnt been many guys walking round, above me. Im quite prepared to say if a guy is accomplished or hotter.

Do you think this way aswell when you are out?

I unfortunately am only an high- average earner, but they cant see that through pics.

Im noticing aswell real handsome guys are doing MGTOW/black pill vids etc, so it goes to show my above theory is somewhat right,.

even higher up guys are being messed about. Men that women should be thankful for
Im around that spectrum as well.. What I notice lots of hot girl walking in supermarket with their friends..means they are not looking for suitors right now. Could be of pandemics, refused taking chances of dating. Lots of average girl with average dude, as we know that average guy are the making 70% accounting from all men they fight for average girl.
Good looking boys are settling for mediocre women as for now.

Im 6'1 myself.. Full hair (just getting hair transplant), fair tone without blemished skin..tone muscle body And i got average girl and whale giving me ioi.. Hot girls they checking me out but behind my back.. But almost they didnt flashed any light.

I could summarize most average and ugly girl are taking advantages in this pandemic to grab hotter guys while they can.. While hotter girl surprisingly they can be alone with themself.. I could almost confirmed that hotter girls are choosing to celibate than taking chances in dating handsome that could be broke dude and faces another disaster in human history.
 

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I dont know what my SMV is but its above 6. Im even the dream size 6 foot 2, and built like a runner back.

I get 10 likes a day on OLD, from no more than 1's!!!!, BLOODY 1's, Brother!!!!!!!

I dont even get a mediocre 4 like my account . If you like your soul crushed from all the self improvement you've done, to be acknowledged by a bugle whale, carry on.
See that's why I'm hesitant to do it. I'd much rather get rejected by hot girls in person (builds more confidence and social freedom long-term), then to be ignored by even average looking girls online and only get the attention of 200lb+ girls.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

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See that's why I'm hesitant to do it. I'd much rather get rejected by hot girls in person (builds more confidence and social freedom long-term), then to be ignored by even average looking girls online and only get the attention of 200lb+ girls.
its just a gross misconduct of your time bro, even when a 3/10 does like your account she will stop replying by the 3rd message.
 

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See that's why I'm hesitant to do it. I'd much rather get rejected by hot girls in person (builds more confidence and social freedom long-term), then to be ignored by even average looking girls online and only get the attention of 200lb+ girls.
I consider myself attractive, but OLD is a Joke. Only fat and below average woman giving out likes. From time to time I got lucky and matched an 8 or a 9 but it is to stupid for me. Like you said, better get rejected by a hot girl in real life instead lowering the status. God knows... Maybe I am ugly
 

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I consider myself attractive, but OLD is a Joke. Only fat and below average woman giving out likes. From time to time I got lucky and matched an 8 or a 9 but it is to stupid for me. Like you said, better get rejected by a hot girl in real life instead lowering the status. God knows... Maybe I am ugly
I doubt it's that you're ugly. Women just get constant attention online to the point where a 250 lb chick thinks she is hot enough for a male model.
 

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I doubt it's that you're ugly. Women just get constant attention online to the point where a 250 lb chick thinks she is hot enough for a male model.
Instagram likes got her feeling like a model, she think she's global but she forever local.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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How tall are you? you're a good looking guy.
I am 5" 11 , 181cm and 87kg with abs . Thanks man, I would also like to believe so. But OLD is a pain in the a$$ , since it gives these broads a false reality.
 

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I am 5" 11 , 181cm and 87kg with abs . Thanks man, I would also like to believe so. But OLD is a pain in the a$$ , since it gives these broads a false reality.
It's only "false" from our point of view.

From their point of view they already have 20+ guys who are attractive to them in their phone that they can call over any time, they can also fvck actors, athletes, models, celebrities, sugar daddies etcetra while being average or below themselves, and an endless tide of guys are lining up to try to perform for them through OLD or social media without counting real life, while there is zero performance burden on themselves. That's their reality.
 
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I consider myself attractive, but OLD is a Joke. Only fat and below average woman giving out likes. From time to time I got lucky and matched an 8 or a 9 but it is to stupid for me. Like you said, better get rejected by a hot girl in real life instead lowering the status. God knows... Maybe I am ugly
Try photofeeler and get your score then so you can objectively see how you look like online. The picture you took doesn't look professional and may not put you in the best light.
 

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It's only "false" from our point of view.

From their point of view they already have 20+ guys who are attractive to them in their phone that they can call over any time, they can also fvck actors, athletes, models, celebrities, sugar daddies etcetra while being average or below themselves, and an endless tide of guys are lining up to try to perform for them through OLD or social media without counting real life, while there is zero performance burden on themselves. That's their reality.
I get that. This is one of the reasons that I am not on any social media page. My buddy with 10k followers gets regularly messages from girls who want to go out for the clout if they tag each other.
They are looking for a come up but I prefer genuine desire. Kinda old-fashioned.
 

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Try photofeeler and get your score then so you can objectively see how you look like online. The picture you took doesn't look professional and may not put you in the best light.
Thanks for your response, but I am done with online dating. I've had 3 horrible "matches"-dates with what I taught to be sevens cause I don't go below on online dating. These Filters , angles and make up is getting outta hand. Most of the time they meet up with you, they look nothing like their profile.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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