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Any Body Got good Cafeteria Pick up tips

Maximummax

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I visit cafeteria twice a day and see lots of girls. would like to know any tips to escalate
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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"You planning to eat those tots?"

Then when they say no you say

"Can I have them?"

Then they say sure and you hastily grab them and stuff them into your pockets and get up and walk away.

Works every time.

 
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“HEY! Look at all of this milk! You want some of this milk? It could be OUR milk.”
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Never done it myself but you probably need to approach for sure and prolly only after positive IOIs as its almost assured that girl in the coffe shop will be there to meet with someone - my intuition tells me it works either for young guys (like max 25) or for middle aged guys (40+) but in this case, mostly in their age bracket.
 

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It's not very common for adults to go to cafeteria style restaurants.

Cafeterias are more associated with K-12 school lunches in the USA.
 

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I'm guessing this is at a college campus. It's the same as being at a mall or anywhere really.. If it's college, just be polite, open like a decent person, find common ground, make it fun, allude to a good time but without being too suggestive, try to pull a same day date/instant date-- if not, setup something for later.
 

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I'm guessing this is at a college campus. It's the same as being at a mall or anywhere really.. If it's college, just be polite, open like a decent person, find common ground, make it fun, allude to a good time but without being too suggestive, try to pull a same day date/instant date-- if not, setup something for later.
its a workplace... there is a large cafeteria where people stand in line to buy food and after that they go for check out , I see oppurtunity and i need tips in opening a conversation.

would like to keep in short and sweet to escalate later (like next day or week)
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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