picard
Master Don Juan
Have you ever seen a regular average joe date a hot model? I never seen one who date a model. Models always date wealthy men who can afford their lavish lifestyle.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Emotions my azz, all of these dudes had/have passions that brought them money!Roly said:If you look at the greatest " womenizers" of our time. They may have been descent looking but they werent models either. i.e. Clark Gable, Mick Jagger, Wilt Chaimberlain, Gene Simmons, Donald Trump, Hugh Hefner, Humprey Bogart, Frank Sinatra, Dean Martin...the list goes on and on.
Now what did these guys have in common? Well I can tell you one thing, they had the abilities to make people feel awesome emotions and their whole lives did not revolve around women, they had passions that goes waaay beyond women and women was just the biproduct as the result of this.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Depends. I've seen ugly scrawny (or fat) scummy looking dudes who are in bands with HOT girlfriends. Looks are only one part of the equation, but they ARE ALWAYS a part of it.picard said:Have you ever seen a regular average joe date a hot model? I never seen one who date a model. Models always date wealthy men who can afford their lavish lifestyle.