picard
Master Don Juan
Have you ever seen a regular average joe date a hot model? I never seen one who date a model. Models always date wealthy men who can afford their lavish lifestyle.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Emotions my azz, all of these dudes had/have passions that brought them money!Roly said:If you look at the greatest " womenizers" of our time. They may have been descent looking but they werent models either. i.e. Clark Gable, Mick Jagger, Wilt Chaimberlain, Gene Simmons, Donald Trump, Hugh Hefner, Humprey Bogart, Frank Sinatra, Dean Martin...the list goes on and on.
Now what did these guys have in common? Well I can tell you one thing, they had the abilities to make people feel awesome emotions and their whole lives did not revolve around women, they had passions that goes waaay beyond women and women was just the biproduct as the result of this.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Depends. I've seen ugly scrawny (or fat) scummy looking dudes who are in bands with HOT girlfriends. Looks are only one part of the equation, but they ARE ALWAYS a part of it.picard said:Have you ever seen a regular average joe date a hot model? I never seen one who date a model. Models always date wealthy men who can afford their lavish lifestyle.