picard
Master Don Juan
Have you ever seen a regular average joe date a hot model? I never seen one who date a model. Models always date wealthy men who can afford their lavish lifestyle.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Emotions my azz, all of these dudes had/have passions that brought them money!Roly said:If you look at the greatest " womenizers" of our time. They may have been descent looking but they werent models either. i.e. Clark Gable, Mick Jagger, Wilt Chaimberlain, Gene Simmons, Donald Trump, Hugh Hefner, Humprey Bogart, Frank Sinatra, Dean Martin...the list goes on and on.
Now what did these guys have in common? Well I can tell you one thing, they had the abilities to make people feel awesome emotions and their whole lives did not revolve around women, they had passions that goes waaay beyond women and women was just the biproduct as the result of this.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Depends. I've seen ugly scrawny (or fat) scummy looking dudes who are in bands with HOT girlfriends. Looks are only one part of the equation, but they ARE ALWAYS a part of it.picard said:Have you ever seen a regular average joe date a hot model? I never seen one who date a model. Models always date wealthy men who can afford their lavish lifestyle.