picard
Master Don Juan
Have you ever seen a regular average joe date a hot model? I never seen one who date a model. Models always date wealthy men who can afford their lavish lifestyle.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Emotions my azz, all of these dudes had/have passions that brought them money!Roly said:If you look at the greatest " womenizers" of our time. They may have been descent looking but they werent models either. i.e. Clark Gable, Mick Jagger, Wilt Chaimberlain, Gene Simmons, Donald Trump, Hugh Hefner, Humprey Bogart, Frank Sinatra, Dean Martin...the list goes on and on.
Now what did these guys have in common? Well I can tell you one thing, they had the abilities to make people feel awesome emotions and their whole lives did not revolve around women, they had passions that goes waaay beyond women and women was just the biproduct as the result of this.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Depends. I've seen ugly scrawny (or fat) scummy looking dudes who are in bands with HOT girlfriends. Looks are only one part of the equation, but they ARE ALWAYS a part of it.picard said:Have you ever seen a regular average joe date a hot model? I never seen one who date a model. Models always date wealthy men who can afford their lavish lifestyle.