"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Any articles on other guys egos

R1ch4rd

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How do you deal with people with big egos, and make friends with them?

Any articles on this??
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Well, you out-ego them ;)

Heh..First, ask yourself..Why do you even want to befriend them?
Usually, those with the biggest ego's are the popular kids, sadly. So if this is a popularity thing...I refuse to help you any further.

The ego hurts you in the end. You must crush it and realize the truth of the inner self and existence. They haven't realized the truth yet. They follow western philosophy.."Cogito ergo sum"..Which is bull****. everything is about them, everything is self-centered..Just ignore them.. it's not that hard.

Yes yes..not all popular kids are bad or think this way, but you know many do. At least, i do.
 

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Well I'm trying to increase my social standing. and meet new friends. what is easy, but I'm going for friends with access to hot girls. There is some cute girls and that, dunno if its worth the work :S. I'm in bit of an unhappy state right now to be honest
 

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hah..i thought about doing that freshman year..but i realized it was completely unnecessary and immature..

i've approached several "popular" attractive girls that didn't know me and still got their numbers...if a girl rejects you for your social standing, she's still an immature little girl..get away

Thoreau: Simplify! Simplify! Simplify!
Why bother yourself with more unnecessary problems?

Being alive is enough reason to be happy...If you can't live without women, you can't live with them. I was told that by this one girl i had semi-oneitis for during my freshman year. I told her all my emotional problems and that's what she responded with. At the time, I thought she was an unhelpful *****..But now, I thank her. Cause she's right
 

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Thanks man thats helping alot.

Any advice on this.
WE have a common room, with year 12 and 13s, this is where we go for break, lunch and when we dont have lessons. I've walked in there and feel like an idiot without a cause. haha i dont enjoy that. Suppose could try just talking to people, if I'm in a confident mood
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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