"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Any articles on other guys egos
- Thread starter R1ch4rd
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
jeffthechef
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Heh..First, ask yourself..Why do you even want to befriend them?
Usually, those with the biggest ego's are the popular kids, sadly. So if this is a popularity thing...I refuse to help you any further.
The ego hurts you in the end. You must crush it and realize the truth of the inner self and existence. They haven't realized the truth yet. They follow western philosophy.."Cogito ergo sum"..Which is bull****. everything is about them, everything is self-centered..Just ignore them.. it's not that hard.
Yes yes..not all popular kids are bad or think this way, but you know many do. At least, i do.
jeffthechef
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i've approached several "popular" attractive girls that didn't know me and still got their numbers...if a girl rejects you for your social standing, she's still an immature little girl..get away
Thoreau: Simplify! Simplify! Simplify!
Why bother yourself with more unnecessary problems?
Being alive is enough reason to be happy...If you can't live without women, you can't live with them. I was told that by this one girl i had semi-oneitis for during my freshman year. I told her all my emotional problems and that's what she responded with. At the time, I thought she was an unhelpful *****..But now, I thank her. Cause she's right
Any advice on this.
WE have a common room, with year 12 and 13s, this is where we go for break, lunch and when we dont have lessons. I've walked in there and feel like an idiot without a cause. haha i dont enjoy that. Suppose could try just talking to people, if I'm in a confident mood
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.