"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Any articles on other guys egos
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
jeffthechef
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Heh..First, ask yourself..Why do you even want to befriend them?
Usually, those with the biggest ego's are the popular kids, sadly. So if this is a popularity thing...I refuse to help you any further.
The ego hurts you in the end. You must crush it and realize the truth of the inner self and existence. They haven't realized the truth yet. They follow western philosophy.."Cogito ergo sum"..Which is bull****. everything is about them, everything is self-centered..Just ignore them.. it's not that hard.
Yes yes..not all popular kids are bad or think this way, but you know many do. At least, i do.
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i've approached several "popular" attractive girls that didn't know me and still got their numbers...if a girl rejects you for your social standing, she's still an immature little girl..get away
Thoreau: Simplify! Simplify! Simplify!
Why bother yourself with more unnecessary problems?
Being alive is enough reason to be happy...If you can't live without women, you can't live with them. I was told that by this one girl i had semi-oneitis for during my freshman year. I told her all my emotional problems and that's what she responded with. At the time, I thought she was an unhelpful *****..But now, I thank her. Cause she's right
Any advice on this.
WE have a common room, with year 12 and 13s, this is where we go for break, lunch and when we dont have lessons. I've walked in there and feel like an idiot without a cause. haha i dont enjoy that. Suppose could try just talking to people, if I'm in a confident mood
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.