"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Any articles on other guys egos
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
jeffthechef
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Heh..First, ask yourself..Why do you even want to befriend them?
Usually, those with the biggest ego's are the popular kids, sadly. So if this is a popularity thing...I refuse to help you any further.
The ego hurts you in the end. You must crush it and realize the truth of the inner self and existence. They haven't realized the truth yet. They follow western philosophy.."Cogito ergo sum"..Which is bull****. everything is about them, everything is self-centered..Just ignore them.. it's not that hard.
Yes yes..not all popular kids are bad or think this way, but you know many do. At least, i do.
jeffthechef
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i've approached several "popular" attractive girls that didn't know me and still got their numbers...if a girl rejects you for your social standing, she's still an immature little girl..get away
Thoreau: Simplify! Simplify! Simplify!
Why bother yourself with more unnecessary problems?
Being alive is enough reason to be happy...If you can't live without women, you can't live with them. I was told that by this one girl i had semi-oneitis for during my freshman year. I told her all my emotional problems and that's what she responded with. At the time, I thought she was an unhelpful *****..But now, I thank her. Cause she's right
Any advice on this.
WE have a common room, with year 12 and 13s, this is where we go for break, lunch and when we dont have lessons. I've walked in there and feel like an idiot without a cause. haha i dont enjoy that. Suppose could try just talking to people, if I'm in a confident mood
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.