"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Any articles on other guys egos
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
jeffthechef
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Heh..First, ask yourself..Why do you even want to befriend them?
Usually, those with the biggest ego's are the popular kids, sadly. So if this is a popularity thing...I refuse to help you any further.
The ego hurts you in the end. You must crush it and realize the truth of the inner self and existence. They haven't realized the truth yet. They follow western philosophy.."Cogito ergo sum"..Which is bull****. everything is about them, everything is self-centered..Just ignore them.. it's not that hard.
Yes yes..not all popular kids are bad or think this way, but you know many do. At least, i do.
jeffthechef
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i've approached several "popular" attractive girls that didn't know me and still got their numbers...if a girl rejects you for your social standing, she's still an immature little girl..get away
Thoreau: Simplify! Simplify! Simplify!
Why bother yourself with more unnecessary problems?
Being alive is enough reason to be happy...If you can't live without women, you can't live with them. I was told that by this one girl i had semi-oneitis for during my freshman year. I told her all my emotional problems and that's what she responded with. At the time, I thought she was an unhelpful *****..But now, I thank her. Cause she's right
Any advice on this.
WE have a common room, with year 12 and 13s, this is where we go for break, lunch and when we dont have lessons. I've walked in there and feel like an idiot without a cause. haha i dont enjoy that. Suppose could try just talking to people, if I'm in a confident mood
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.