"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Any advice?--dump job

cave dweller

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Hey guys,

Any advice here?

My GF just did a 'dump job' on me for a 'rich man'.

The bottom line here---- she met him, several moths ago, was seeing him behind my back and now she is gone.

Hell, I can't compete with a 'rich man'.

Weeeeeeeeee........

I have to get this one behind me..........

cave dweller
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ricky

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Be happy you are done with that golddigger and even happier you weren't married to her when it happened!
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Well, at least he can afford what he's getting into... Better him than you.... NEXT!....
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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cave dweller

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back door bob

Thanks gang,

That son-of-a-bvtch does not know it, but, he has a problem.

Because, they don't call me 'Back Door Bob' for nothing.

cave dweller
 

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You happened to stumble onto one of those professional hookers who disguise themselves as regular chicks.

I actually have more respect for a chick who stands out on a corner at night selling her a$$ than a chick that pretends to actually give a sh*t about you and then takes you for all you've got.
 

-HPNOTIQ-

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Cave...sounds like you're dealing with this well.

The f*cked up part is when you DO make it financially, have a nice house, drive a f*cking awesome car, and can wine and dine any women you want..You'll start questioning the motives of EVERY woman you date who makes less than you.

I know..I know..you'd rather be the fella with the cash than w/o it..sure..we all do.

But man, if you can earn little, yet, find a chic who does financially well, is awesome in bed, and has a personality to match...then my friend, HOOK ME UP WITH HER SISTER..haha:p :p
 

cave dweller

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bob again

Once again........Thanks gang.

That son-a-bvtch (I call him 'slick') she ran off with , a month ago, has a fvcking problem.

'Slick' don't know it, because, I have a tight game plan.

I am sticking to my plays.

Hey, she has already slipped over here for a 'booty call'.

He ain't as slick as he thinks he is.

Because, the cave dweller is a 'freight train' in bed.

cave dweller
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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cave dweller

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harem..........

Hey,

A tip here:

Some of you young guys need to build a 'harem'.

That way when a relationship 'crashes' you have a back up game plan.

cave dweller
 

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Originally posted by cave dweller

Hell, I can't compete with a 'rich man'.

Weeeeeeeeee........

I have to get this one behind me..........

cave dweller
Maybe he is more charming than you, and that rich thing is just an excuse you mentally give to yourself.
 

cave dweller

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******

Hey,

Just an update here.

She (my ****** Buddy) called yesterday and said she wanted to see me tonight.

She said she wanted some 'stiff dvck'.

We came to an oral agreement not to talk about the last 4 years and our failed LTR and just have a rodeo.

So, old 'Back Door Bob' hit that thang.

cave dweller
 
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