"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Any advice?--dump job

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cave dweller

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Hey guys,

Any advice here?

My GF just did a 'dump job' on me for a 'rich man'.

The bottom line here---- she met him, several moths ago, was seeing him behind my back and now she is gone.

Hell, I can't compete with a 'rich man'.

Weeeeeeeeee........

I have to get this one behind me..........

cave dweller
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Be happy you are done with that golddigger and even happier you weren't married to her when it happened!
 
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Well, at least he can afford what he's getting into... Better him than you.... NEXT!....
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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back door bob

Thanks gang,

That son-of-a-bvtch does not know it, but, he has a problem.

Because, they don't call me 'Back Door Bob' for nothing.

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You happened to stumble onto one of those professional hookers who disguise themselves as regular chicks.

I actually have more respect for a chick who stands out on a corner at night selling her a$$ than a chick that pretends to actually give a sh*t about you and then takes you for all you've got.
 
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Cave...sounds like you're dealing with this well.

The f*cked up part is when you DO make it financially, have a nice house, drive a f*cking awesome car, and can wine and dine any women you want..You'll start questioning the motives of EVERY woman you date who makes less than you.

I know..I know..you'd rather be the fella with the cash than w/o it..sure..we all do.

But man, if you can earn little, yet, find a chic who does financially well, is awesome in bed, and has a personality to match...then my friend, HOOK ME UP WITH HER SISTER..haha:p :p
 
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bob again

Once again........Thanks gang.

That son-a-bvtch (I call him 'slick') she ran off with , a month ago, has a fvcking problem.

'Slick' don't know it, because, I have a tight game plan.

I am sticking to my plays.

Hey, she has already slipped over here for a 'booty call'.

He ain't as slick as he thinks he is.

Because, the cave dweller is a 'freight train' in bed.

cave dweller
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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harem..........

Hey,

A tip here:

Some of you young guys need to build a 'harem'.

That way when a relationship 'crashes' you have a back up game plan.

cave dweller
 
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Originally posted by cave dweller

Hell, I can't compete with a 'rich man'.

Weeeeeeeeee........

I have to get this one behind me..........

cave dweller
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Maybe he is more charming than you, and that rich thing is just an excuse you mentally give to yourself.
 
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******

Hey,

Just an update here.

She (my ****** Buddy) called yesterday and said she wanted to see me tonight.

She said she wanted some 'stiff dvck'.

We came to an oral agreement not to talk about the last 4 years and our failed LTR and just have a rodeo.

So, old 'Back Door Bob' hit that thang.

cave dweller
 
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