"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Any advice?--dump job

cave dweller

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Hey guys,

Any advice here?

My GF just did a 'dump job' on me for a 'rich man'.

The bottom line here---- she met him, several moths ago, was seeing him behind my back and now she is gone.

Hell, I can't compete with a 'rich man'.

Weeeeeeeeee........

I have to get this one behind me..........

cave dweller
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ricky

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Be happy you are done with that golddigger and even happier you weren't married to her when it happened!
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Well, at least he can afford what he's getting into... Better him than you.... NEXT!....
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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cave dweller

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back door bob

Thanks gang,

That son-of-a-bvtch does not know it, but, he has a problem.

Because, they don't call me 'Back Door Bob' for nothing.

cave dweller
 

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You happened to stumble onto one of those professional hookers who disguise themselves as regular chicks.

I actually have more respect for a chick who stands out on a corner at night selling her a$$ than a chick that pretends to actually give a sh*t about you and then takes you for all you've got.
 

-HPNOTIQ-

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Cave...sounds like you're dealing with this well.

The f*cked up part is when you DO make it financially, have a nice house, drive a f*cking awesome car, and can wine and dine any women you want..You'll start questioning the motives of EVERY woman you date who makes less than you.

I know..I know..you'd rather be the fella with the cash than w/o it..sure..we all do.

But man, if you can earn little, yet, find a chic who does financially well, is awesome in bed, and has a personality to match...then my friend, HOOK ME UP WITH HER SISTER..haha:p :p
 

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bob again

Once again........Thanks gang.

That son-a-bvtch (I call him 'slick') she ran off with , a month ago, has a fvcking problem.

'Slick' don't know it, because, I have a tight game plan.

I am sticking to my plays.

Hey, she has already slipped over here for a 'booty call'.

He ain't as slick as he thinks he is.

Because, the cave dweller is a 'freight train' in bed.

cave dweller
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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cave dweller

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harem..........

Hey,

A tip here:

Some of you young guys need to build a 'harem'.

That way when a relationship 'crashes' you have a back up game plan.

cave dweller
 

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Originally posted by cave dweller

Hell, I can't compete with a 'rich man'.

Weeeeeeeeee........

I have to get this one behind me..........

cave dweller
Maybe he is more charming than you, and that rich thing is just an excuse you mentally give to yourself.
 

cave dweller

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******

Hey,

Just an update here.

She (my ****** Buddy) called yesterday and said she wanted to see me tonight.

She said she wanted some 'stiff dvck'.

We came to an oral agreement not to talk about the last 4 years and our failed LTR and just have a rodeo.

So, old 'Back Door Bob' hit that thang.

cave dweller
 
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