"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Any advice?--dump job

cave dweller

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Hey guys,

Any advice here?

My GF just did a 'dump job' on me for a 'rich man'.

The bottom line here---- she met him, several moths ago, was seeing him behind my back and now she is gone.

Hell, I can't compete with a 'rich man'.

Weeeeeeeeee........

I have to get this one behind me..........

cave dweller
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Be happy you are done with that golddigger and even happier you weren't married to her when it happened!
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Well, at least he can afford what he's getting into... Better him than you.... NEXT!....
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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cave dweller

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back door bob

Thanks gang,

That son-of-a-bvtch does not know it, but, he has a problem.

Because, they don't call me 'Back Door Bob' for nothing.

cave dweller
 

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You happened to stumble onto one of those professional hookers who disguise themselves as regular chicks.

I actually have more respect for a chick who stands out on a corner at night selling her a$$ than a chick that pretends to actually give a sh*t about you and then takes you for all you've got.
 

-HPNOTIQ-

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Cave...sounds like you're dealing with this well.

The f*cked up part is when you DO make it financially, have a nice house, drive a f*cking awesome car, and can wine and dine any women you want..You'll start questioning the motives of EVERY woman you date who makes less than you.

I know..I know..you'd rather be the fella with the cash than w/o it..sure..we all do.

But man, if you can earn little, yet, find a chic who does financially well, is awesome in bed, and has a personality to match...then my friend, HOOK ME UP WITH HER SISTER..haha:p :p
 

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bob again

Once again........Thanks gang.

That son-a-bvtch (I call him 'slick') she ran off with , a month ago, has a fvcking problem.

'Slick' don't know it, because, I have a tight game plan.

I am sticking to my plays.

Hey, she has already slipped over here for a 'booty call'.

He ain't as slick as he thinks he is.

Because, the cave dweller is a 'freight train' in bed.

cave dweller
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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cave dweller

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harem..........

Hey,

A tip here:

Some of you young guys need to build a 'harem'.

That way when a relationship 'crashes' you have a back up game plan.

cave dweller
 

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Originally posted by cave dweller

Hell, I can't compete with a 'rich man'.

Weeeeeeeeee........

I have to get this one behind me..........

cave dweller
Maybe he is more charming than you, and that rich thing is just an excuse you mentally give to yourself.
 

cave dweller

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******

Hey,

Just an update here.

She (my ****** Buddy) called yesterday and said she wanted to see me tonight.

She said she wanted some 'stiff dvck'.

We came to an oral agreement not to talk about the last 4 years and our failed LTR and just have a rodeo.

So, old 'Back Door Bob' hit that thang.

cave dweller
 
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