stovepipe
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Mar 12, 2017
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Triggered!Recognize the set, and stop being a fvcking tool. Bloody idiot.
Literally can't stand these guys keep ethicalling the set.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Triggered!Recognize the set, and stop being a fvcking tool. Bloody idiot.
Literally can't stand these guys keep ethicalling the set.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
RationalIrrational.
You got crabs? When's the crab feast?Listen, you haven't been in the sitch, then you aren't no "alpha". It really is that simple.
Average beta male notch count is 4 in old age. You literally can't have been out of the situation if not a lame-arse.
Presumably gayPredictably gay.
He writes poetry too!Nah, you got an emoji from a hb4.
So you get some guy with a notch count below 5 certainly, then a bird. Wonderful.
Meanwhile the set is elsewhere. Have a think about anything relevant you've said.
Now then, as in "presume", I presume the guy is quite young, otherwise he'd just have had a laugh quicker.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Don't get mad at me because the girl you dropped off at home after dinner called me over to come finish the job.Anyone who cheats is a pos. The fact you did it numerous times makes you a huge pile of chit. The only advice I'd give to a loser like yourself is to man the fuk up and leave this girl alone, or have the balls to tell her she is better off without the scumbag loser that you are.
It's called respect. I live by it and I'll die by it.Don't get mad at me because the girl you dropped off at home after dinner called me over to come finish the job.