"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hi, I've been lurking around the site since january when i found it and it has since made a huge impact on my life. Big thanks to SoSuave for that! :) My game has allready evolved a lot, but I still have a lot of work to do... I decided to join now because I have a question for you guys.

What would you do if you caught your girlfriend kissing another guy in a club? Happened to me on saturday, went out with my girl had a blast at first, both got pretty drunk, then I saw her kiss this other guy...
I went over there right away and calmly just wished her all the best in the future and said goodbye. Then I went back to my friends, she left crying. She's been texting saying sorry all day and how she loves me and $hit. Haven't answerd anything yet.

I know she disrespected me with this stunt, but I do like this girl. Right now I don't know if I should let this go or just dump her..? All opinions are welcome. Thanks.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by SickPuppy
Hi, I've been lurking around the site since january when i found it and it has since made a huge impact on my life. Big thanks to SoSuave for that! :) My game has allready evolved a lot, but I still have a lot of work to do... I decided to join now because I have a question for you guys.

What would you do if you caught your girlfriend kissing another guy in a club? Happened to me on saturday, went out with my girl had a blast at first, both got pretty drunk, then I saw her kiss this other guy...
I went over there right away and calmly just wished her all the best in the future and said goodbye. Then I went back to my friends, she left crying. She's been texting saying sorry all day and how she loves me and $hit. Haven't answerd anything yet.

I know she disrespected me with this stunt, but I do like this girl. Right now I don't know if I should let this go or just dump her..? All opinions are welcome. Thanks.
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wow, you did that way better than most would, cause id lose my temper with that guy, damn right its over
WOW you sure u need this site :up:
 
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If you only LIKE her then HELL NO, don't bring her back. Maybe if you LOVED her. Maybe.

DON'T TAKE HER BACK!
 
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you did fine..but dont take her back..she will do it again.

i liked how you did.
its her fault not the other guys fault since he didnt know she was your girl.
i dont get how guys turn afc and attack another guy for macking thier girls especially if the guy didnt know she was your girl and your girls already all over him.
 
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its okay to take her back eventually, but make it hard for her first.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by skeeloo
you did fine..but dont take her back..she will do it again.

i liked how you did.
its her fault not the other guys fault since he didnt know she was your girl.
i dont get how guys turn afc and attack another guy for macking thier girls especially if the guy didnt know she was your girl and your girls already all over him.
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WHEN IM IN DA CLUB EVERYONE KNOW WHO MY HO, alright guy?
thx.
 
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