"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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SickPuppy

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Hi, I've been lurking around the site since january when i found it and it has since made a huge impact on my life. Big thanks to SoSuave for that! :) My game has allready evolved a lot, but I still have a lot of work to do... I decided to join now because I have a question for you guys.

What would you do if you caught your girlfriend kissing another guy in a club? Happened to me on saturday, went out with my girl had a blast at first, both got pretty drunk, then I saw her kiss this other guy...
I went over there right away and calmly just wished her all the best in the future and said goodbye. Then I went back to my friends, she left crying. She's been texting saying sorry all day and how she loves me and $hit. Haven't answerd anything yet.

I know she disrespected me with this stunt, but I do like this girl. Right now I don't know if I should let this go or just dump her..? All opinions are welcome. Thanks.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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RaWBLooD

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Originally posted by SickPuppy
Hi, I've been lurking around the site since january when i found it and it has since made a huge impact on my life. Big thanks to SoSuave for that! :) My game has allready evolved a lot, but I still have a lot of work to do... I decided to join now because I have a question for you guys.

What would you do if you caught your girlfriend kissing another guy in a club? Happened to me on saturday, went out with my girl had a blast at first, both got pretty drunk, then I saw her kiss this other guy...
I went over there right away and calmly just wished her all the best in the future and said goodbye. Then I went back to my friends, she left crying. She's been texting saying sorry all day and how she loves me and $hit. Haven't answerd anything yet.

I know she disrespected me with this stunt, but I do like this girl. Right now I don't know if I should let this go or just dump her..? All opinions are welcome. Thanks.
wow, you did that way better than most would, cause id lose my temper with that guy, damn right its over
WOW you sure u need this site :up:
 

B-Lemond

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If you only LIKE her then HELL NO, don't bring her back. Maybe if you LOVED her. Maybe.

DON'T TAKE HER BACK!
 

skeeloo

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you did fine..but dont take her back..she will do it again.

i liked how you did.
its her fault not the other guys fault since he didnt know she was your girl.
i dont get how guys turn afc and attack another guy for macking thier girls especially if the guy didnt know she was your girl and your girls already all over him.
 

Marlimus

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its okay to take her back eventually, but make it hard for her first.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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RaWBLooD

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Originally posted by skeeloo
you did fine..but dont take her back..she will do it again.

i liked how you did.
its her fault not the other guys fault since he didnt know she was your girl.
i dont get how guys turn afc and attack another guy for macking thier girls especially if the guy didnt know she was your girl and your girls already all over him.
WHEN IM IN DA CLUB EVERYONE KNOW WHO MY HO, alright guy?
thx.
 
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