"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hi, I've been lurking around the site since january when i found it and it has since made a huge impact on my life. Big thanks to SoSuave for that! :) My game has allready evolved a lot, but I still have a lot of work to do... I decided to join now because I have a question for you guys.

What would you do if you caught your girlfriend kissing another guy in a club? Happened to me on saturday, went out with my girl had a blast at first, both got pretty drunk, then I saw her kiss this other guy...
I went over there right away and calmly just wished her all the best in the future and said goodbye. Then I went back to my friends, she left crying. She's been texting saying sorry all day and how she loves me and $hit. Haven't answerd anything yet.

I know she disrespected me with this stunt, but I do like this girl. Right now I don't know if I should let this go or just dump her..? All opinions are welcome. Thanks.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by SickPuppy
Hi, I've been lurking around the site since january when i found it and it has since made a huge impact on my life. Big thanks to SoSuave for that! :) My game has allready evolved a lot, but I still have a lot of work to do... I decided to join now because I have a question for you guys.

What would you do if you caught your girlfriend kissing another guy in a club? Happened to me on saturday, went out with my girl had a blast at first, both got pretty drunk, then I saw her kiss this other guy...
I went over there right away and calmly just wished her all the best in the future and said goodbye. Then I went back to my friends, she left crying. She's been texting saying sorry all day and how she loves me and $hit. Haven't answerd anything yet.

I know she disrespected me with this stunt, but I do like this girl. Right now I don't know if I should let this go or just dump her..? All opinions are welcome. Thanks.
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wow, you did that way better than most would, cause id lose my temper with that guy, damn right its over
WOW you sure u need this site :up:
 
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If you only LIKE her then HELL NO, don't bring her back. Maybe if you LOVED her. Maybe.

DON'T TAKE HER BACK!
 
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you did fine..but dont take her back..she will do it again.

i liked how you did.
its her fault not the other guys fault since he didnt know she was your girl.
i dont get how guys turn afc and attack another guy for macking thier girls especially if the guy didnt know she was your girl and your girls already all over him.
 
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its okay to take her back eventually, but make it hard for her first.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by skeeloo
you did fine..but dont take her back..she will do it again.

i liked how you did.
its her fault not the other guys fault since he didnt know she was your girl.
i dont get how guys turn afc and attack another guy for macking thier girls especially if the guy didnt know she was your girl and your girls already all over him.
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WHEN IM IN DA CLUB EVERYONE KNOW WHO MY HO, alright guy?
thx.
 
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