"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hi, I've been lurking around the site since january when i found it and it has since made a huge impact on my life. Big thanks to SoSuave for that! :) My game has allready evolved a lot, but I still have a lot of work to do... I decided to join now because I have a question for you guys.

What would you do if you caught your girlfriend kissing another guy in a club? Happened to me on saturday, went out with my girl had a blast at first, both got pretty drunk, then I saw her kiss this other guy...
I went over there right away and calmly just wished her all the best in the future and said goodbye. Then I went back to my friends, she left crying. She's been texting saying sorry all day and how she loves me and $hit. Haven't answerd anything yet.

I know she disrespected me with this stunt, but I do like this girl. Right now I don't know if I should let this go or just dump her..? All opinions are welcome. Thanks.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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RaWBLooD

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Originally posted by SickPuppy
Hi, I've been lurking around the site since january when i found it and it has since made a huge impact on my life. Big thanks to SoSuave for that! :) My game has allready evolved a lot, but I still have a lot of work to do... I decided to join now because I have a question for you guys.

What would you do if you caught your girlfriend kissing another guy in a club? Happened to me on saturday, went out with my girl had a blast at first, both got pretty drunk, then I saw her kiss this other guy...
I went over there right away and calmly just wished her all the best in the future and said goodbye. Then I went back to my friends, she left crying. She's been texting saying sorry all day and how she loves me and $hit. Haven't answerd anything yet.

I know she disrespected me with this stunt, but I do like this girl. Right now I don't know if I should let this go or just dump her..? All opinions are welcome. Thanks.
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wow, you did that way better than most would, cause id lose my temper with that guy, damn right its over
WOW you sure u need this site :up:
 
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B-Lemond

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If you only LIKE her then HELL NO, don't bring her back. Maybe if you LOVED her. Maybe.

DON'T TAKE HER BACK!
 
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you did fine..but dont take her back..she will do it again.

i liked how you did.
its her fault not the other guys fault since he didnt know she was your girl.
i dont get how guys turn afc and attack another guy for macking thier girls especially if the guy didnt know she was your girl and your girls already all over him.
 
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its okay to take her back eventually, but make it hard for her first.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by skeeloo
you did fine..but dont take her back..she will do it again.

i liked how you did.
its her fault not the other guys fault since he didnt know she was your girl.
i dont get how guys turn afc and attack another guy for macking thier girls especially if the guy didnt know she was your girl and your girls already all over him.
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WHEN IM IN DA CLUB EVERYONE KNOW WHO MY HO, alright guy?
thx.
 
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