"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Another problem. How do you show interest/hit on/ ask a chick out

verysuave

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without giving them the power? It feels like, whenever I ask a chick out, ask for their number, or hit on them... that, I am giving them my power... you know? Or is this just the way it is..
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Basically, you do it in a way that she CAN'T say no to.

Don't ask her: "Would you like to go out sometime?" because she can say NO to that, and it's very easy and very common for her to say no.

No, you don't give her that option, instead you say something like:

"Saturday night, I am going to go to BLAH. I'll have to think about it, but I'll let you tag along if you're nice to me."

Say that in an almost authoritive tone, and smile when you do it (you really have to come across as "laid back" with the tone).

If she shows interest, then get her number and tell her you'll call her. Wait about 2 to 3 days and call to confirm.
 

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verysuave said:
without giving them the power? It feels like, whenever I ask a chick out, ask for their number, or hit on them... that, I am giving them my power... you know? Or is this just the way it is..
How about read the fvcking bible?
 
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