"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Another problem. How do you show interest/hit on/ ask a chick out

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without giving them the power? It feels like, whenever I ask a chick out, ask for their number, or hit on them... that, I am giving them my power... you know? Or is this just the way it is..
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Basically, you do it in a way that she CAN'T say no to.

Don't ask her: "Would you like to go out sometime?" because she can say NO to that, and it's very easy and very common for her to say no.

No, you don't give her that option, instead you say something like:

"Saturday night, I am going to go to BLAH. I'll have to think about it, but I'll let you tag along if you're nice to me."

Say that in an almost authoritive tone, and smile when you do it (you really have to come across as "laid back" with the tone).

If she shows interest, then get her number and tell her you'll call her. Wait about 2 to 3 days and call to confirm.
 
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verysuave said:
without giving them the power? It feels like, whenever I ask a chick out, ask for their number, or hit on them... that, I am giving them my power... you know? Or is this just the way it is..
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How about read the fvcking bible?
 
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