"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Another problem. How do you show interest/hit on/ ask a chick out

verysuave

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without giving them the power? It feels like, whenever I ask a chick out, ask for their number, or hit on them... that, I am giving them my power... you know? Or is this just the way it is..
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Basically, you do it in a way that she CAN'T say no to.

Don't ask her: "Would you like to go out sometime?" because she can say NO to that, and it's very easy and very common for her to say no.

No, you don't give her that option, instead you say something like:

"Saturday night, I am going to go to BLAH. I'll have to think about it, but I'll let you tag along if you're nice to me."

Say that in an almost authoritive tone, and smile when you do it (you really have to come across as "laid back" with the tone).

If she shows interest, then get her number and tell her you'll call her. Wait about 2 to 3 days and call to confirm.
 

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verysuave said:
without giving them the power? It feels like, whenever I ask a chick out, ask for their number, or hit on them... that, I am giving them my power... you know? Or is this just the way it is..
How about read the fvcking bible?
 
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