"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Another problem. How do you show interest/hit on/ ask a chick out

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without giving them the power? It feels like, whenever I ask a chick out, ask for their number, or hit on them... that, I am giving them my power... you know? Or is this just the way it is..
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Basically, you do it in a way that she CAN'T say no to.

Don't ask her: "Would you like to go out sometime?" because she can say NO to that, and it's very easy and very common for her to say no.

No, you don't give her that option, instead you say something like:

"Saturday night, I am going to go to BLAH. I'll have to think about it, but I'll let you tag along if you're nice to me."

Say that in an almost authoritive tone, and smile when you do it (you really have to come across as "laid back" with the tone).

If she shows interest, then get her number and tell her you'll call her. Wait about 2 to 3 days and call to confirm.
 
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verysuave said:
without giving them the power? It feels like, whenever I ask a chick out, ask for their number, or hit on them... that, I am giving them my power... you know? Or is this just the way it is..
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How about read the fvcking bible?
 
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