Stagger Lee
Master Don Juan
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This blonde chick in a burka profile made me laugh for some reason http://www.plentyoffish.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=15873653.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I bet this one would give Sho Kosugi a run for his Ninja dollar.Stagger Lee said:This blonde chick in a burka profile made me laugh for some reason http://www.plentyoffish.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=15873653.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I think I'd rather stick my stuff into an electrical socket ...Blackmm said:Ill trade you for this:
http://www.plentyoffish.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=12533872
*Has kids, and "the crazy".Stagger Lee said:She's just an UG who's a little uglier and 6 years older but appears half way normal and has no kids. I've seen uglier on POF with kids and a worse attitude believe it or not lol. The vast majority of the chicks on pof here have kids, even the ones in the early 20's.
So did you use POF at all and had better results on Match? I don't like the idea of paying for online dating but if it's better than it'd be worth the minuscle monthly subscription cost.Sue Madre said:I used to bag tons of girls from online dating and never met anyone from POF for some reason. It's a trashy site, I got most women from match and all I did was spam the same message to every dumb girl on there.
5'6" 247lbs.Stagger Lee said:This blonde chick in a burka profile made me laugh for some reason http://www.plentyoffish.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=15873653.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Stagger Lee said:So did you use POF at all and had better results on Match? I don't like the idea of paying for online dating but if it's better than it'd be worth the minuscle monthly subscription cost.
On Match as I understand, it's free to have a profile but you have to subscribe to send and receive messages. How do you know if a female you are going to message has a subscription and can send messages?
Too bad I can't use the ones my latest, semi-freaky girl has me take - her riding me at the moment of climax, eyes all rolled back, hair flying, lip-biting, the works. Deep-throating me looking up into the camera. Then there are the naughty ones ...Poonani Maker said:Why can't they just want me based on Me and not just how some other chick reacts to me? Sick, I tell ya. Sick.
LeftyLoosey said:5'6" 247lbs.