Stagger Lee
Master Don Juan
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This blonde chick in a burka profile made me laugh for some reason http://www.plentyoffish.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=15873653.
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I bet this one would give Sho Kosugi a run for his Ninja dollar.Stagger Lee said:This blonde chick in a burka profile made me laugh for some reason http://www.plentyoffish.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=15873653.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I think I'd rather stick my stuff into an electrical socket ...Blackmm said:Ill trade you for this:
http://www.plentyoffish.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=12533872
*Has kids, and "the crazy".Stagger Lee said:She's just an UG who's a little uglier and 6 years older but appears half way normal and has no kids. I've seen uglier on POF with kids and a worse attitude believe it or not lol. The vast majority of the chicks on pof here have kids, even the ones in the early 20's.
So did you use POF at all and had better results on Match? I don't like the idea of paying for online dating but if it's better than it'd be worth the minuscle monthly subscription cost.Sue Madre said:I used to bag tons of girls from online dating and never met anyone from POF for some reason. It's a trashy site, I got most women from match and all I did was spam the same message to every dumb girl on there.
5'6" 247lbs.Stagger Lee said:This blonde chick in a burka profile made me laugh for some reason http://www.plentyoffish.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=15873653.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Stagger Lee said:So did you use POF at all and had better results on Match? I don't like the idea of paying for online dating but if it's better than it'd be worth the minuscle monthly subscription cost.
On Match as I understand, it's free to have a profile but you have to subscribe to send and receive messages. How do you know if a female you are going to message has a subscription and can send messages?
Too bad I can't use the ones my latest, semi-freaky girl has me take - her riding me at the moment of climax, eyes all rolled back, hair flying, lip-biting, the works. Deep-throating me looking up into the camera. Then there are the naughty ones ...Poonani Maker said:Why can't they just want me based on Me and not just how some other chick reacts to me? Sick, I tell ya. Sick.
LeftyLoosey said:5'6" 247lbs.