Stagger Lee
Master Don Juan
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This blonde chick in a burka profile made me laugh for some reason http://www.plentyoffish.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=15873653.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I bet this one would give Sho Kosugi a run for his Ninja dollar.Stagger Lee said:This blonde chick in a burka profile made me laugh for some reason http://www.plentyoffish.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=15873653.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I think I'd rather stick my stuff into an electrical socket ...Blackmm said:Ill trade you for this:
http://www.plentyoffish.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=12533872
*Has kids, and "the crazy".Stagger Lee said:She's just an UG who's a little uglier and 6 years older but appears half way normal and has no kids. I've seen uglier on POF with kids and a worse attitude believe it or not lol. The vast majority of the chicks on pof here have kids, even the ones in the early 20's.
So did you use POF at all and had better results on Match? I don't like the idea of paying for online dating but if it's better than it'd be worth the minuscle monthly subscription cost.Sue Madre said:I used to bag tons of girls from online dating and never met anyone from POF for some reason. It's a trashy site, I got most women from match and all I did was spam the same message to every dumb girl on there.
5'6" 247lbs.Stagger Lee said:This blonde chick in a burka profile made me laugh for some reason http://www.plentyoffish.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=15873653.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Stagger Lee said:So did you use POF at all and had better results on Match? I don't like the idea of paying for online dating but if it's better than it'd be worth the minuscle monthly subscription cost.
On Match as I understand, it's free to have a profile but you have to subscribe to send and receive messages. How do you know if a female you are going to message has a subscription and can send messages?
Too bad I can't use the ones my latest, semi-freaky girl has me take - her riding me at the moment of climax, eyes all rolled back, hair flying, lip-biting, the works. Deep-throating me looking up into the camera. Then there are the naughty ones ...Poonani Maker said:Why can't they just want me based on Me and not just how some other chick reacts to me? Sick, I tell ya. Sick.
LeftyLoosey said:5'6" 247lbs.