djokovic77
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This is me. Any tips for improvement?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Young Stallion
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Your a good looking guy. Its interesting that you post on this message board or have any difficulty with women at all to be honest.
How do you feel your game is weak?
How do you feel your game is weak?
Jair213
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Good physique, good looks. Keep it up pimpin.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
McMotherLover
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How old are you? If you're 25 plus maybe grow some facial hair. For you prob a 5 oclock shadow would be best.
Another thing is you should accessorize. Maybe some jewelry? It doesn't have to be flashy if that's not your thing.
Other than that you're good dude. I don't see why it would be hard for you to pull a lot of girls
Another thing is you should accessorize. Maybe some jewelry? It doesn't have to be flashy if that's not your thing.
Other than that you're good dude. I don't see why it would be hard for you to pull a lot of girls
djokovic77
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I think I am pretty AFC to be honest. I'm 22, gonna be 23 in August. I get hit on a fair amount; in fact my only pickups are basically me being hit on. Occasionally I'll work up the nerve to approach. Generally, when I go out (I'm going out later tonight), I'll get hit on once or twice, but only close (bang or at least lead to a bang) one out of like every 4 times.
The biggest thing is in the girls who I don't hit on/don't hit on me I feel bad energy from them to me. I think it's in my head/AFC. I basically need approval or feel like there is something wrong with how I look. I sometimes look to see if girls just brush by the other guys the same way they do to me. I also have occasional mild acne flareups related to food/digestive issues which I'm getting help for; it doesn't really change the way I look that much but it can affect confidence.
Basically, I guess I feel like good looking guys would be swarmed everywhere they go lol.
The biggest thing is in the girls who I don't hit on/don't hit on me I feel bad energy from them to me. I think it's in my head/AFC. I basically need approval or feel like there is something wrong with how I look. I sometimes look to see if girls just brush by the other guys the same way they do to me. I also have occasional mild acne flareups related to food/digestive issues which I'm getting help for; it doesn't really change the way I look that much but it can affect confidence.
Basically, I guess I feel like good looking guys would be swarmed everywhere they go lol.
Why is it that people expect everyone to like them let alone be attracted to them? Some guys could have a million girls after them and just ONE who wasn't would make a guy feel unattractive.djokovic77 said:
Why the hell would you feel 'bad energy' from a girl who doesn't even know you? Confirm your thoughts by talking to them like a normal person. You may wind up surprising yourself.
Mike32ct
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Focus on what I have in bold.djokovic77 said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
djokovic77
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Just dive bars and stuff like that. I usually try to go when there's a good crowd but not too many people.
exile663dfx
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djokovic77 Are you Serbian?
djokovic77
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haha no, I'm just a huge Novak fan.
that's the problem... I never been to bars nor clubs.
I get hit a lot by elder woman. Seriously, a LOT. That's where most of my flirts comes from.
Girls my ages just plainly ignore me or just pretend to do so.
Need to visit one of those places and see how it goes. I just dont want to go alone due to lack of experience.
What other places do you recommend?
I get hit a lot by elder woman. Seriously, a LOT. That's where most of my flirts comes from.
Girls my ages just plainly ignore me or just pretend to do so.
Need to visit one of those places and see how it goes. I just dont want to go alone due to lack of experience.
What other places do you recommend?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
djokovic77
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Haha Good Advice. Yeah I recommend dive bars if you go alone. If you have a wingman, then you can go to social venues that have dancing/games etc. Or a rooftop bar/club. Again you'd probably feel more comfortable with a wingman in a place like that. But to be honest, most of my success is from slightly older women (usually mid 20's to early 30's) hitting on me in dive bars. By dive I don't mean dingy or gross, I just mean small, intimate and nothing special in terms of theme or atmosphere.