djokovic77
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This is me. Any tips for improvement?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Young Stallion
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Your a good looking guy. Its interesting that you post on this message board or have any difficulty with women at all to be honest.
How do you feel your game is weak?
How do you feel your game is weak?
Jair213
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Good physique, good looks. Keep it up pimpin.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
McMotherLover
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How old are you? If you're 25 plus maybe grow some facial hair. For you prob a 5 oclock shadow would be best.
Another thing is you should accessorize. Maybe some jewelry? It doesn't have to be flashy if that's not your thing.
Other than that you're good dude. I don't see why it would be hard for you to pull a lot of girls
Another thing is you should accessorize. Maybe some jewelry? It doesn't have to be flashy if that's not your thing.
Other than that you're good dude. I don't see why it would be hard for you to pull a lot of girls
djokovic77
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I think I am pretty AFC to be honest. I'm 22, gonna be 23 in August. I get hit on a fair amount; in fact my only pickups are basically me being hit on. Occasionally I'll work up the nerve to approach. Generally, when I go out (I'm going out later tonight), I'll get hit on once or twice, but only close (bang or at least lead to a bang) one out of like every 4 times.
The biggest thing is in the girls who I don't hit on/don't hit on me I feel bad energy from them to me. I think it's in my head/AFC. I basically need approval or feel like there is something wrong with how I look. I sometimes look to see if girls just brush by the other guys the same way they do to me. I also have occasional mild acne flareups related to food/digestive issues which I'm getting help for; it doesn't really change the way I look that much but it can affect confidence.
Basically, I guess I feel like good looking guys would be swarmed everywhere they go lol.
The biggest thing is in the girls who I don't hit on/don't hit on me I feel bad energy from them to me. I think it's in my head/AFC. I basically need approval or feel like there is something wrong with how I look. I sometimes look to see if girls just brush by the other guys the same way they do to me. I also have occasional mild acne flareups related to food/digestive issues which I'm getting help for; it doesn't really change the way I look that much but it can affect confidence.
Basically, I guess I feel like good looking guys would be swarmed everywhere they go lol.
Why is it that people expect everyone to like them let alone be attracted to them? Some guys could have a million girls after them and just ONE who wasn't would make a guy feel unattractive.djokovic77 said:
Why the hell would you feel 'bad energy' from a girl who doesn't even know you? Confirm your thoughts by talking to them like a normal person. You may wind up surprising yourself.
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Focus on what I have in bold.djokovic77 said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
djokovic77
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Just dive bars and stuff like that. I usually try to go when there's a good crowd but not too many people.
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djokovic77 Are you Serbian?
djokovic77
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haha no, I'm just a huge Novak fan.
that's the problem... I never been to bars nor clubs.
I get hit a lot by elder woman. Seriously, a LOT. That's where most of my flirts comes from.
Girls my ages just plainly ignore me or just pretend to do so.
Need to visit one of those places and see how it goes. I just dont want to go alone due to lack of experience.
What other places do you recommend?
I get hit a lot by elder woman. Seriously, a LOT. That's where most of my flirts comes from.
Girls my ages just plainly ignore me or just pretend to do so.
Need to visit one of those places and see how it goes. I just dont want to go alone due to lack of experience.
What other places do you recommend?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
djokovic77
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Haha Good Advice. Yeah I recommend dive bars if you go alone. If you have a wingman, then you can go to social venues that have dancing/games etc. Or a rooftop bar/club. Again you'd probably feel more comfortable with a wingman in a place like that. But to be honest, most of my success is from slightly older women (usually mid 20's to early 30's) hitting on me in dive bars. By dive I don't mean dingy or gross, I just mean small, intimate and nothing special in terms of theme or atmosphere.