"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Another Example of a Guy Who Did Not Qualify His Woman

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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LMAO!:crackup:

The truly sad thing is, this woman has 5 kids. Now she's gonna be in jail for 5 years. Some people should just be shot for their stupidity.
 

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WHAT THE FVCK?

Baby-Bat?! What a crazy b1tch.

Dudics declined further comment except to say that Graham had told her she was depressed.
Classic. They always are.

Francisco d'Anconia said:
Anyone care to count how many mistakes this guy has made?
I prefer not to! :eek:
 

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ExploringOne said:
LMAO!:crackup:

The truly sad thing is, this woman has 5 kids. Now she's gonna be in jail for 5 years. Some people should just be shot for their stupidity.
Wanna guess who will probably step up and take care of the ankle biters until mommy is sprung?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Damn, we gotta spread DJism now, THE HUMANITY DEPENDS ON IT!!! :crackup:

"People are trying to make a big deal about it, but she did not do it on purpose. ... It was just a mistake," he said.
Might as well start grabbing people when I want some new weapons to fight!

Whoops, wrong weapon! *drops person on the floor*
 

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djbr said:
Damn, we gotta spread DJism now, THE HUMANITY DEPENDS ON IT!!! :crackup:
Especially with 20 year old AFCs sarging wannabe MILFs looking like her and having children with them... :nervous:
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Especially with 20 year old AFCs sarging wannabe MILFs looking like her and having children with them... :nervous:
Wait, the guy is 20? I didn't see this.

Now I am afraid. Mars ticket anyone? :eek:
 

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I would hesitate to label the boyfriend as one more shining example of AFCism. Maybe I listened way too much to Loveline back in its heyday with Adam Carolla, but I sniff major chaos coming from the boyfriend. The news article didn't provide much in way of the boyfriend but by the mere analysis of the girlfriend and the events of that evening (i.e. coming home from drinking) we can safely and reliably deduce the boyfriend as probably most extremely likely equally as royally screwed in the head as she (e.g. physically abusive alcoholic asswhole).

(Edit: I was going to predict a black woman on welfare and now looking at her picture.... yeah)
 

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Deep Dish said:
I would hesitate to label the boyfriend as one more shining example of AFCism. Maybe I listened way too much to Loveline back in its heyday with Adam Carolla, but I sniff major chaos coming from the boyfriend. The news article didn't provide much in way of the boyfriend but by the mere analysis of the girlfriend and the events of that evening (i.e. coming home from drinking) we can safely and reliably deduce the boyfriend as probably most extremely likely equally as royally screwed in the head as she (e.g. physically abusive alcoholic asswhole).

(Edit: I was going to predict a black woman on welfare and now looking at her picture.... yeah)
He's 20 years old and has had a baby with a woman who already has 4 kids and she's an angry drunk PLUS he's defending her actions. Sounds like an AFC to me! :kick:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I definitely smell food stamp recipients... in which case I guess I must concede the question arises why allow yourself to be conned by a baby factory? Oh well, I just turned on my Playstation and will get back to playing Grand Theft Auto (Vice City)... time to swing hookers like bats.
 
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djbr said:
Might as well start grabbing people when I want some new weapons to fight!

Whoops, wrong weapon! *drops person on the floor*
Haha, make sure the kid is 13 or older!!

What are hors going to do next - hors frighten me!! (LMS hides in corner huddled in an infantile position sucking his thumb)
 

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I vote she gets the death penalty. How can you say "I didnt mean to hit you in the face with the baby, it just got into my hands." What kind of 3rd rate bull**** is that? Off with her head.
 

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Deep Dish said:
I definitely smell food stamp recipients... in which case I guess I must concede the question arises why allow yourself to be conned by a baby factory? Oh well, I just turned on my Playstation and will get back to playing Grand Theft Auto (Vice City)... time to swing hookers like bats.
GTA series kick some ass! :D
 

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AFC: "Hey honey, how was work?"

*grabs baby*

B!tch: "Take that motherfvcker!!!"

AFC: "Oh, darling. What did you do? You killed our baby"

B!tch: "Oh, don´t worry we still got four more"

LMAO :crackup:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Wanna guess who will probably step up and take care of the ankle biters until mommy is sprung?
the article said her chlidren were in her parents custody .
 

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in the first article she said she swung him, swung him like a bat. in the second article she said she didnt mean to.

poor kid.
 

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djbr said:
I prefer not to! :eek:
maybe later

I got a group of meetings to go to.

comic_relief

EDIT: I recant my earlier statement and just say that she should write a book on "how to be an effective parent."

comic_relief
 

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penkitten said:
the article said her chlidren were in her parents custody .
Give it time. He's hanging on making excuses for her. It'll be the way that he will prove that he is a "real man" (whatever that means).
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Give it time. He's hanging on making excuses for her. It'll be the way that he will prove that he is a "real man" (whatever that means).
wouldnt a righteous man just take his own child out of it and divorce her quietly
and quickly?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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